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Recent content by bbo1948

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    What do you do?

    I so identify with you!! I wish I had answers. I am 59, and have wasted my entire life. I don't feel like a real person: its like a big hunk of me is missing. I just started therapy, and really hpe it helps. I am reading all the books I can on the subject. I don't want to offer you any...
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    Really Need Help

    I am brand new to site. I'm 58, widowed with 6yr old adopted daughter. I have ADD with impulsivity, depression and anxiety. I am totally unorganized, house a pit. I can't get anything done, although I am home all day. I need someone to write out a daily schedule for me, please. I am unable to...
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    So tired of the impulsiveness

    BUT, how I can sympathize. I'm 58, just diagnosed, but have been crazy like this all my life. I barely get by on Social Security, and spent my whole income tax refund(I worked 4 months last year) on, of all things flowers and plants for the yard. I was just widowed on Christmas Day. I am...