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Recent content by BatCat

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    Girlfriend going to club

    Hey guys/gals just wanted to update. Also thank you for praying for me if you did. God has truly provided as he consistently does. I was mostly worried that this happened last weekend and was going to become a regular occurrence, but it turns out it was before we were even dating (we had...
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    Girlfriend going to club

    That sounds like a terrible situation. To be clear, she never used the word controlling that was me paraphrasing her “if I’m having fun and not doing anything wrong then what’s wrong with it?”. So for the comments above, I don’t think she’s trying to manipulate me in that way she just doesn’t...
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    Girlfriend going to club

    Hey all, will try to make this quick. I recently graduated college. During college and in high school I wasn’t a very practicing Christian and got involved in weed/alcohol a lot. I was in a very toxic relationship in college that did not serve God, we met in a party and partied a lot. I decided...
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    How to avoid procrastination?

    I've started carrying a small notepad around and writing everything down that I need to get done. I get over-anxious and that leads to procrastination, but the notepad helps me visualize what needs done and crossing things off feels so good!
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    How to help someone who is convinced they are doomed to hell no matter what?

    My friend grew up in a Lutheran school system and said that's why she had weak faith. I grew up in a Lutheran church with an amazing pastor and it's been a great foundation for my faith. We since went to a church on our college campus and she really liked the sermon one of the pastors gave. She...
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    How to help/deal with a stubborn person.

    Tell her you'll pay her 10 or 20 bucks for a nice drawing with her favorite verse under it. You can keep it forever and remember her in 10 years when y'all are living on your own. I wish I had more to remember my brothers, and am grateful that I can still see them every few months. It sounds...
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    Regaining sexual purity in a relationship?

    Forgive me for any flawed logic, I'm new here. Try to see the greater purpose of purity. Sin/impurity isn't just bad because God said so. It's bad because God said so AND he's always right. Therefore it's bad for a reason. The fact that he is right means that there is evidence to show that he is...