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Recent content by Bain_Adaneth

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    Christian Opinons Only Please

    Brokenin2, I feel you. I’d like to say that easy to say that it’s his fault because it’s been 30 years. I would have to say that even in this disgusting sin, you have a part in letting it linger. We want them to correct it on their own, because it’s their sin, not ours. But yes...
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    Son sleeping with girlfriend

    Xapiemom… Hi, I'm writing back to correct something. I feel convicted because I said older people are wiser. Wrong, God convicted my heart today reminding me that old people can be fools too. The young can be wise, and the old can be fools. The thought kept going around in my head...so...
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    Son sleeping with girlfriend

    Xapiemom… I can’t believe what I’m hearing by so-called “Christians” in here saying that he’s old enough to make his own decisions and sleep with her?! Would Jesus have said this? Amazing what people claim and say these days! Did Jesus and the Word of God not teach against sleeping out of...
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    I feel a calling in my life...are apostles active today?

    No they are NOT for today. Yes, God did give some to be apostles....and there were apostles. But not for today their isn't. The apostles and prophets came to lead the way to Jesus and to spread the truth of the bible and to confirm them. That's already been done, and the bible is written...
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    What is the point of all this?

    Hi vitaliy711, The bible teaches that each person is different from another, and that people have different gifts. Some people are gifted with the preaching, some with teaching, some with helping hands…and I can tell you that I know several women who are very strong prayer warriors...
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    Career choice. Need prayers and help!

    It's easy. It depends what is first in your life...your career or God. If it's your career, you'll probably forsake everything for the sake of getting that job. But if it's God, God will always come first. And when you put God first, He will place you in the good place. He will answer your...
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    How do I stop doubting God's existence? (very serious question)

    Next step, FOCUS of Jesus Christ and READ and THINK about God daily. If the WOrd of GOd and Jesus is filled in your mind, there will be no room for sin. Walk in the Spirit and you will not fulfill the lusts of the flesh.
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    How do I stop doubting God's existence? (very serious question)

    1Lifeto live1SoultoGive, I understand. If you truly believe that God exist and that Jesus died for us, and you truly gave your life to Him. Then you’re saved. Nothing to fear….that voice will be there, but you can command it to leave in the name Jesus Christ, and it will go. I...
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    following the Spirit's lead

    The Holy Spirit, you cannot see, or feel. But He is the voice in your mind telling you to do all the that Word of God has taught you to do. So read God's Word, and what the Spirit does is help you to remember them and do them. He never strays from the Word of God. And if you believe...
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    Resisting Confession of Sins

    When that happens to me....I just get on my needs and say...."God, it's hard for me to confess my sins to you...humble me, bring me to my needs, help me to cry out to you Lord....I'm deep in sin and far from you. Bring me back to you Lord. Don't let me be in despair and enjoy this sin that is...
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    Christian Opinons Only Please

    And the bible does teach us not to be far from our spouses for too long, so that no one will be tempted....and also not to deprive our spouses of sexual needs. 1 Corinthians 7 1 Now for the matters you wrote about: “It is good for a man not to have sexual relations with a...
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    Christian Opinons Only Please

    My advice is to pray, and talk to your pastor or elders about pornography counseling to fix your marriage. I think pornography is what a lot of guys have problems with. It's very embarrassing and shameful for both parents. But it's something that you have to deal with now, and not let it...
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    how to let go of my past life

    You will never loose temptation. Temptation is everywhere, but the closer your walk with God is, the more you’ll be blind to them. And sooner or later, you’ll feel like they don’t exist, but they’re always there. That is why Paul said that it is a battle between the flesh and the spirit all...
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    Is fear/anxiety, crying common for new christians??

    Joycem, I hope that my response will not offend you, but to the best of my knowledge, it's true. It’s your church. Personally I don’t believe in crying in groups like that. I really think it’s ridiculous. Depending on your denomination, you will be participating in different...
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    spiritual warfare?

    Hi Goodbook, Mental problems, yes, could be chemical, or born with it. But bipolar, personally I’d have to say it’s demonic. I’ve seen several BP people and it was just very bad. Also, a friend told me that her son was diagnosed as bipolar, but that he was speaking in a different voice...