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    What Do You Look For?

    i avoid women with exotic personalities as mates, since those chicks are usually full of drama!
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    i'm screwed

    for those of you who remember, i was looking for answers on premarital sex, defending my views of how it was okay. however, i was talking with God one day as normally, and i heard Him speak loud on the inside of me. He told me that although sex is good, the christians with the Spirit of God in...
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    Premarital sex

    I asked for serious replies to my argument. Let's see what came back. "I'm a fool" What a brilliant argument...maybe for someone in the first grade. I have no Biblical basis? I'd like to see your Biblical basis, please. Instead of non-Biblical statistics. I'm looking for the opinions of...
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    Premarital sex

    I've pretty much come to this conclusion right now: It's just as possible to get an STD from drinking after a friend. Emotional attachments from sex, that you allow, can be just as strong from other events you have with a loved one, if you allow them. As of right now, babies are an...
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    Premarital sex

    good point
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    Premarital sex

    i'm bewildered how the act of sex - something so good and perfect can become evil and condemned by the conditions of time. sex is always good no matter what-- Truth (Because the act of sex is always good, positive in and of itself, creating life) sex is always good no matter what,-- but best...
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    Premarital sex

    okay, good point. maybe i am like that, thanks. so perhaps this is what is not making sense. Sex is wonderful and perfect when you're married. All the sudden it's horribly evil and condemned when you're not married? How is that possible? it's always wonderful and perfect or it's always bad...
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    Premarital sex

    why do you care? i'm twenty years old, i've been a Christian almost my entire life and embrace my relationship with Christ and talk with Him daily, because of the changes He's made in my life. I avoid religion, my experience is they're full of a-holes that constantly force me into what's right...
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    Premarital sex

    how can sex be good... but fornication evil? if sex is good, and fornication is sex, then fornication must be good.
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    Premarital sex

    I'm cocksure I'm not going to get a woman pregnant, until I marry, I'm not stupid about it. people have gotten STDs from several other places than sex. There are only emotional attachments if you let them come and they usually come outside of sex. I mean, these things exist outside of sex. It's...
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    Premarital sex

    i'm screwed. i'm not making babies until I do marry, i just enjoy the pleasures of it. i feel as guilty for having premarital sex as i do eating a potato chip, which is nothing at all. this doesn't make sense to me. why does engaging in sex before marriage evil? it's sooo good, and positive...
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    Premarital sex

    Heroin destroys... sex creates... Umm, I've looked a bit for verses in the new testament that say it's evil, but I can't find any. if anyone knows some anywhere in the new testament, i'd greatly appreciate it. yeah, it'd change my mind, or at least make me think more
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    Premarital sex

    I'm a Christian and love Jesus, so can someone please show me where in the new testament it says premarital sex is evil. Cause I love it, it's relaxing, positive energy, and life giving. I don't feel evil, unworthy or less when I do it.
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    James the jerk

    Yes you're right. I was showing him how James was not an apostle, and didn't understand faith. Even though James says a few good things, it doesn't make his faith teaching correct. All Scripture is given for correction, and James needs some correcting.
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    James the jerk

    Faith is the substance of things hoped for, but the evidence of things not seen, as Paul defines faith in King James.
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