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Recent content by Arej

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    Tampons.

    I quite dislike the feel of tampons. They're uncomfortable as soon as they're in. I've never worn one for more than 10 minutes. I bleed heavily, though, so I need two pads to 'catch' it all. I don't mind the feeling.
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    If you could dye your hair ANY color what would it be?

    I have light brown hair. I'd love to die my hair white. That'd be interesting.
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    My hair

    I agree with cutting it. On the plus side, once you have a really funky short haircut, you won't be afraid or bothered by how your hair looks any more. And short hair feels nice. :)
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    Should we let kids believe in Santa Clause?

    I don't think it was so harmful that it has corrupted millions of children, but I'd never let my future kids believe in it, if I even decide to do Christmas in the future. I think they'd benefit better from learning gratitude for a real person than to believe in a mystical gift-bearing intruder.
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    Northern lights

    It's been my dream to see the North Lights all my life. They are the most beautiful thing I can imagine.
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    What's so great about pleasure?

    Well, because generally, pleasure is fairly easy to attain, whether the type is sexual pleasure/drugs/food/adrenaline responses, etc. Simple sensory response can give release to suffering for anyone who has a little money. A lot of the time, people can't really place the pursuit of rational...
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    What's so great about pleasure?

    When I'm not in pleasure I'm not necessarily feeling pain. I agree with that concept above me. Asking why people like to be pleased as opposed to feeling suffering is very pointless. Unless you were born without the ability to feel pain you should know the answer. Asking the question just to...
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    Why ban this?

    But the question is, Who shot Nice Guy Eddie?
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    do animals go to heaven

    I learned it as this: All living creatures have souls, and deserve respect, but man can sin, and therefore he's the only creature that can go to heaven or hell because he can choose to oppose God. My teacher explained it in a more complicated manner but what he said made sense.
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    Make way for the coming of the Lord

    Not really, but hello, I am new. :)