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Recent content by appointed

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    I'm done

    Okay, I know what everyone is thinking, here is another guy that comes onto a forum to complain about his failing relationship. But, I would really appreciate it if you would read my moaning and just respond, I feel so frustrated. First of all, I'm about to walk away from the situation. My...
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    What difference does it make?

    Toil Is Meaningless- Ecclesiastes 2, 20-26 20 (This may be from King Solomon) So my heart began to despair over all my toilsome labor under the sun. 21 For a man may do his work with wisdom, knowledge and skill, and then he must leave all he owns to someone who has not worked for it. This...
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    ------> If you care.

    -I just got out of highschool, but I have no idea what I'm going to do with my life. -I can't control my anger. -I swear about absolutely nothing, over the slightest upset. -I struggle with porn when I am sad or frustrated. -My girlfriend doesn't like me, she never wants to see me or be close...
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    People hate me.

    I don't really know when this started, or when it's going to end, I'll I know is that I'm sick of life and everything in it. People hate me, and to tell you the truth, I hate myself. During adolescence, my parents assured me that everything would pass, and I would feel normal again. Everything...
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    God!

    I really do hope that what I am about to write helps us all. For someone like me who does struggle with depression, this is what is in my heart. I want this to be an on-going blog. Throughout the bible there is a King named David, I'm sure all of you have read of David slaying the giant...
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    can't take it anymore

    Sorry if I made you feel this way from my post. But, I would like to offer you a piece of what God told me this morning. Mariah, we don't belong here. I have wasted so much time trying to be happy in this world, from other people (girls), from money, from getting nice new things, even from lust...
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    Why?

    I've changed my outlook. God cares for me.
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    I'm I Just Crazy?

    Well............. I have to say that I know most of you won't want to read this. But, I really do need some advice. About a year and a half ago, I met this girl. She is the most beautiful thing I have ever seen. She is nice, funny and a christian. Then, about a month ago, I told her that I...
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    Baggage from Iraq

    If your friend was trying to protect the rest of his team, then he did nothing wrong. War is a horrible thing, just thing how fast you would have to think in their shoes. I would not judge too quickly. Remember, he is not sinning because he is protecting our country. In fact, that is the opposite!
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    Anguish!

    So there is this girl that I have known for a little over a year. She is the most beautiful, absolutelyamazing person I have ever seen. I have loved her for all this time. The first few months I knew her, I thought, this is just a stupid little crush, I'll get over it. But, this last weekend, I...
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    I hate breathing.

    Every morning I get up, I can't wait until I can go back to sleep the next night. Nothingness. That is all I will ever want. These are the reasons: 1. I can't pray. 2. My desires will not be fulfilled. 3. I am completely useless in any relationship (girls, family, friends...) 4. I can't stop...
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    Just A Tease!

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    Just A Tease!

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    Anger!

    My depression is starting to show itself through a huge amount of anger. I hate myself, life, work, school, friends, family, sports, nature, even my talents. It is not rare for me to scream at the ceiling in bouts of sobs trying so hard to understand why I am here. The problem also is that...
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    Insomnia

    I just want to say that I know exactly how you feel! For years, I have struggled with deep depression and sleeplessness. Although I still have depression, at least my sleep has leveled out. This is because I went to a doctor as well. He gave me a anti-depressant called "Trazodone". I don't...