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Recent content by APG38

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    Just another young guy whose wife left him......

    I know exactly what your going through, back and forth with emotions. I received a great message in church today that helps me deal with alot of this. None of all the other stuff matters, what you did, what you didnt do, How many people you are up against, or even how your wife feels about you...
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    Wife Left

    I am sorry for bringing any of you into this. I dont think its the proper way to deal with things. My initial post was to see if the things I felt were feelings I should be feeling. I very well know from previous posts and from reading my Wifes posts on another board that things can turn very...
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    Wife Left

    My wife definately does not think I am Mr Rogers or that I behave like him. She feels quite the contrary, that I have pushed her to all of this and that some how have made her afraid of me. I know sometimes that I didnt listen as well as I should have and at times argued my point too...
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    2 months now

    You definately did not give him the greenlight to cheat, that has nothing to do with what you did or didnt do. You were right in giving him the option to fix that problem or move on. I believe that the only cause of a marriage failing is when one person gives up. You want the marriage to be a...
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    Wife Left

    Thank you again for your insight. It truly helps me to know that people care. I have many questions and try to go slowly so as to not make this confusing. Last night I talked to my wife and the subject came up of how hurt I was that she said so many awful things about me in messages to other...
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    Wife Left

    Thank you for the replies. I have tried to contact this Pastor she was talking to, its been a week and he hasnt responded. She told me that he was sometimes busy and didnt answer right away. I personally cant understand why you would effect a couples marriage in this way and then get around to...
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    Wife Left

    I am new here, but I have been asking for God's help and feel he led me here. I read some of the other posts and found that there was some very good advice given and my situation is much the same. I came home from work a couple of weeks ago and my wife was just gone. She had left a note that...