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Recent content by Anon0

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    I just want to talk about my current struggles

    I think i know what caused this relapse i dont think it was any type of media i was having a certain type of dream adn when i woke up i started to consciously give into M. Then later in the day when i was going to sleep i couldn't fall asleep for some reason. Then i eventually did give in. Are...
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    I just want to talk about my current struggles

    The problem is it seems like i have tried so many different things to beat this and nothing has worked. I just relapsed after a 13 day streak. I just lack self control for it. I can only hope this previous streak was a sign that things will get better. Still i wish i could talk to my pastor...
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    I just want to talk about my current struggles

    I've been struggling with PMO for a long time now. It was originally just MO but has now moved to PMO. I've talked about this struggle of mine before on here but it still hasn't gone away. I dont like it when i give in because i know its not what God wants but i am just an addict to this sin...
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    Getting older alone

    Your right i do have good things in life but its hard to have a mindset of being happy and grateful for what God has gifted me when i struggle with sin then on top of that wonder if i ever will get married. I'm not going into details but I've realized that there is conflict with what i desire in...
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    Getting older alone

    Its not scary its just sad. Like I said so far I've missed out on making memories with someone I care for. I feel alone when im surrounded by others who aren't. I just feel like I'd be mad at God if I had to wait that long to get married because I missed out on stuff for so long.
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    Getting older alone

    I dont want to have children. Not everyone wants the same thing. I know im not in a place atm to provide but why cant i at the very least meet someone? Getting married in my late 30s in 40s, I just dont want to. I don'twant to wait another 10 to 20 years before I can finally get have sex and...
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    Getting older alone

    do you ever wonder if you ever will get married. Like I'm 26 and have yet to be in any genuine relationship with someone. I missed out on having memories with a GF/Wife for my 20's so far and might miss out completely. in less than 4 yeras i'll be 30 and heading into territory where i dont know...
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    Bowing to other people?

    Hey all I have a question that I'm curious to hear responses to. I was interested in getting back into taking martial arts classes because I want to learn self defense. The problem however is one particular thing which is bowing to other people. Cause from what I remember and what I have seen...
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    Making time for God

    I definitely struggle with prayer it's a lot of silence most of the time mixed in with my mind drifting. Its hard.
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    Making time for God

    Yeah I've definitely struggled with that.
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    Making time for God

    Im going to try that tonight. One of the reasons I never did was because of a putting God first mentality that I have. The first thing I would do after getting home is read as a way to put God first. If not reading then talking to him. I guess it would just get to me and make me feel bad if I...
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    Making time for God

    Hey all so maybe someone can relate to this issue of mine. It seems like for a while now I've lost time in my day to day life. What I mean by that is well to tell you the truth i dont really know. Time isn't going by faster but for some reason it just seems like I have less time in my day to day...
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    wanting to put on muscle but worried about gaining weight

    So I wanted to take a try at putting on muscle but I am worried about gaining weight the reason being that years ago i lost a substantial amount of weight ~100lbs so every time i see the scale go up its always tough to see and makes me go on short term diets to get back to a weight i'm...
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    I keep falling into sin for some reason

    correct me if I'm wrong. Is it right to say I am only going to defeat this sin if God wills it? And if I can only be given freedom from this sin if God wills it should i then be beating myself up so much when I fall into it?
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    Male Accountability Thread

    is anyone willing to be an accountability partner to me and me in return. I have been having a bunch of falls to lust for a while now and just want to break free from it.