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Recent content by Anles

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    I'm such a hypocrite!

    Thanks, y'all. We'll see how being friends go. I just really don't want to hurt his feelings. My experiences with online dating have varied. Some of the men have been nice. Some have been psycho freaks. Several have told me in the initial email that God told them I was to be their wife...
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    I'm such a hypocrite!

    He did have a picture posted, but it was vague. I knew he wasn't a toned athletic guy, but he was just different than I expected. I like bigger guys truthfully. Little skinny guys are not my thing. I expected a teddy bear, just not Santa Claus. I'm more frustrated by my reaction than...
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    I'm such a hypocrite!

    I had a first date last night with a guy I met on eHarmony. We've been emailing and talking on the phone for weeks and weeks now and get along like gangbusters. So I met him for the first time last night and it was weird. He's a big guy. A really big guy. And it is soooooo hypocritical of me for...
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    Frustrated With Single Christian Ladies...

    Wow. I thought it was just me being neurotic and self-defeating when I shied away from guys that instantly wanted a relationship...
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    OK, ladies, so what's with the hot and cold running water?

    Huh... and here I was about to ask the same question about this guy I just met... :P
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    Differences in how we talk...

    bayous have alligators... EEK!
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    Differences in how we talk...

    I'm originally form Alabama (in TN now) so I speak the dialect and understand the natives. :D I have, indeed, carried my mom on some errands. I have a midwestern friend that gives me grief for saying "might could", as in "We might could do that". And then there's y'all... you= singular...
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    Men and beauty

    Wow! I go away to work and come back to find all kinds of interesting responses here! Go y'all! I agree that beauty is a cultural thing and that we here are pretty wrapped up in the skinny, blond, waif look. It's just that every culture has their physical ideal though and that physical...
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    Men and beauty

    Why do you think that God created men to be attracted so strongly to physical beauty? Of all the characteristics for a woman to have, that is likely the least useful or important. Beauty alone contributes nothing to the betterment of society, unlike intelligence or creativity or even just...
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    Favorite Quotes

    I'm with your tanning friend. Brown fat looks better than white fat. Just look at bacon! Mmmmmm...
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    Favorite Quotes

    I before E except after C I use that one all the time... :D
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    A new observation and opinions

    Why didn't Flirting Guy ask her to the party in the first place? Would have been no need for GUy #2 then.
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    Friends that hint they want more?

    What they said... Good luck! :thumbsup:
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    Trust...

    Oh, goodness yes! I totally have trust issues! I think it just comes with living. It's a form of self preservation. Certainly being slower to trust keeps me from so freely giving my heart away (as I did when I was younger). To a certain extent, it's a good thing. It makes me open my eyes...
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    intimacy before marriage

    Yup. :)