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Recent content by anaka

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    What Guys Need to Understand

    As a girl, I think that is a decision that is completly up to guys and i don't think a girl has any right to jugde a guy whatever he decides to do. Girls can't understand. And i do think that you're right.. masturbation is better than sex before marriage, and generally... I belive that if you...
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    Abstinence

    thanks Kepa and Fishstix. You both make really good (and helpful!) points. In a way i guess i do make things harder for myself by spending a lot of time with others who don't share my beliefs, but then again I like that I can defy streotypes and suprise people. I think that whilst I woul...
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    Abstinence

    Hey everyone... I'm just hoping to speak to some real people stuggling to deal with abstinence... how do you cope and deal with it? A lot of my fiends are having sex.. are other dealing with this at collage or school? I don't like to try and enforce my views upon other people.... and like...
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    What Guys Need to Understand

    On this issue i think it is really up to the individual to decide. If a young man (or woman) masturbates and as a result does not have pre-marital sex then i guess that's better than having sex? Obviously in many peoples opinion masturbation is just as bad...but it's a fine line. I have a...