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Recent content by americus

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    How do you cope?

    Thank you to both of you. I've had a really tough few days. I keep trying to remember the verse, "He will quiet you with his love." I repeat it over and over in my head. The thoughts won't stop. There's nothing I can do about this situation and yet I nit pick it in my brain to death. I...
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    How do you cope?

    I'm new here. I've had therapists tell me before that I have a form of OCD-- mostly the obsessive thoughts. Last night was the last straw for me-- I could NOT stop obsessing about a problem. I could not let it go. I even dreamed about it. I'm so tired of the hamster wheel constantly...