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Recent content by AmberB

  1. AmberB

    Fear of food (help)

    Thank you all. I feel better. I ate and I had anxiety, but I did my best to ignore it. I stayed away from the pork foods they had, but I had anxiety because I know pork (enzymes, lard, etc.) can be in other foods. However, I was feeling fine about it in general, it was just my anxiety and OCD...
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    Fear of food (help)

    Well, sort of. It's more a fear of the OT laws and what they say about pork and other unclean animals. I can't tell if it's still in affect. SO MANY people say you CAN eat pork. SO MANY say that you can't. Both arguments seem to have good points and make sense. So just don't eat bacon then...
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    Sabbath Anxiety (PLEASE HELP)

    Well, this conversation has done nothing but confuse me and give me more anxiety. Lol But thanks for everyone's contribution.
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    Sabbath Anxiety (PLEASE HELP)

    Many people have told me that too, but others have told me that we still have to listen to the OT Laws and I try to pray for clarity in what I must do, but I am so selfish and fearful over having to give stuff up, I usually end up just getting anxiety. I try giving it up to God, but I get...
  5. AmberB

    Sabbath Anxiety (PLEASE HELP)

    Thank you all. I'm trying to not be selfish at the idea of possible having to give stuff hard. I try to tell myself change takes time. I don't have to be perfect immediately, or at all. But I keep having terrible thoughts and I don't know how long I can do this.
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    How do you feel the Holy Spirit?

    I'm not sure if I ever have. Maybe there is something wrong with me. :(
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    Sabbath Anxiety (PLEASE HELP)

    So, can I wear clothing of mixed fabric? That's a law, right? I'm still learning them, which is why I ask. What about wearing clothes for the opposite sex? I'm a girl and I get my shirts from the men's section because they fit better, not because I want to be a guy. So do I eventually have to...
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    Biblical hell is a real place.

    Thank you. :)
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    Biblical hell is a real place.

    Because I have terrible anxiety all the time about everything I do and I live in constant fear that every thing I do is bad. And when the anxiety melts away and I feel fine, I worry that I'm not caring enough and not focusing enough on God and that I may backslide. I'm a mess lol. But your words...
  10. AmberB

    Biblical hell is a real place.

    I think that hell is where you burn in pain forever and ever and I'm in constant fear of it. :')
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    Sabbath Anxiety (PLEASE HELP)

    I really don't want this to become a debate, but I understand if it does. I've been learning about God recently (I've only been a Christian for a couple months) and I'm some how just now realizing that I may have to do the Sabbath day. This may sound weird, but it's making me panic. I have...
  12. AmberB

    My Mooching Aunt is Abusing my Mom!

    I don't really know how to help, but I will pray for your family. <3
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    Why do we hold onto the traditions of men

    I ask all of you a question. I want to celebrate Christmas, Christ being the reason, but I also want to enjoy the decorations and giving of gifts. Is that okay? This will be my first Christmas as a true Christian and I want to learn how to put Jesus first and celebrate it for Him and Him only...
  14. AmberB

    Is it my fault? Husband calls me names

    I will pray for you!
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    Doubt In The Context of Faith

    Thank you very much! I have just recently begun reading the Bible, so I will keep this in my mind. Although I must ask, when you say don't pray selfishly, do you mean praying for stuff like wealth and power and stuff? Because I have a lot of anxiety about going to hell and a lot of trouble with...