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Recent content by Amber2550

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    Husband Employs Former Girlfriend/Shares Meals

    Wrong. I was gone for TWO days. Not a long absence whatsoever. Moreover, he was invited to come with me, and didn't want to. Mind you, I visited my parents (two hours away) with my daughter so I could see them post Christmas since I have not seen them in almost 6 months yet have spent every...
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    Husband Employs Former Girlfriend/Shares Meals

    True. This woman is single and 17 years younger than him (and 10 years younger than me). Not cool.
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    Husband Employs Former Girlfriend/Shares Meals

    I have an ex husband and he has an ex wife. Those relationships are necessary as we have children. Those relationships are also out in the open - we have all met one another on several occasions. He is the boss where he works. This woman has NEVER once come to a work event if I am there. When...
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    Husband Employs Former Girlfriend/Shares Meals

    I don't know what kind of society we live in where people think this type of relationship is fine and seek to blame me for someone else not living up to their word. I will you right now, my husband would NEVER tolerate me even having a simple conversation with someone I used to be intimate with...
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    Husband Employs Former Girlfriend/Shares Meals

    Thank you. That is absolutely the case. We had an argument about it and settled it with, she can work for you, but absolutely no more text messaging and one-on-one lunches/coffee, etc... I thought everything was settled and didn't concern myself with it for two years because I absolutely trusted...
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    Husband Employs Former Girlfriend/Shares Meals

    REALLY? I have to negotiate to allow my husband to share meals with someone he used to sleep with? I don't think so. It is unreasonable to ask your spouse to negotiate on an issue like that. It is hurtful and disrespectful and not honoring the marriage we discussed we would have. This was an...
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    Husband Employs Former Girlfriend/Shares Meals

    Thank you for all of your responses. We are seeking marriage counseling, but I am 100% confident that the marriage counselor cannot be a liberal/feminist, because those types of folks do not share in traditional marriage viewpoints that men and women should honor their spouse above all others...
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    Husband Employs Former Girlfriend/Shares Meals

    And I don't have daddy issues. My parents have been married for almost 50 years and my relationship with my dad is amazing. No daddy issues. I do have trust issues, but I don't think what I am asking in unreasonable for a wife to ask Don't go on one on one coffee or lunch dates with a woman you...
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    Husband Employs Former Girlfriend/Shares Meals

    I absolutely did not marry my father. Not even close. I married a good man that I love very much, but I am concerned with this relationship that makes me uncomfortable. He wouldn't stand for me to have a similar relationship and in turn, I believe I deseve the same respect. Why would a man or...
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    Husband Employs Former Girlfriend/Shares Meals

    I started dating the most wonderful man in April of 2013. We had met online and both had recovered from divorces in which our respective spouses had been unfaithful. We had that in common and always agreed trust and fidelity were extremely important in any relationship. About 6 months into our...