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Recent content by alascott

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    My therapist thinks I don't have BPD

    Hey there - I actually had the exact same thing happen, but I SWEAR I have nearly all the symptoms - just not "full blown." My therapist said that, in fact, as the basis for me *not* having the diagnosis. She said "I have BPD patients and you don't have the problems they do...so therefore..." I...
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    Hey there!

    Found you guys today - very glad for this venue and this kind of online community. Cool. Looking forward to learning more, being encouraged and passing out encouragement. Blessings on you guys! a tiny bit about me: single gal living in the metro atlanta area. love my work at an executive...
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    What would I give to be normal?

    VERY helpful. Amen - and God, help. This is very good advice. Have a therapist in place - need an accountability friend. Good stuff here. Blessings on you guys. :amen:
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    Question

    Just found this group today. Already encouraged. God bless you all for being honest - it is encouraging to know that this stuff (BPD) is real, and that there is hope. So grateful. I so identify with all of this. Just starting my journey of healing and hope towards health (with laptop and tv or...