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Recent content by Ajoj

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    Hopeless

    I feel like there is no me to get back too, like i become another person and there is no going back
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    Hopeless

    The people i hang out mostly are my sisters and that one friend, they know about big part of my strugles, so i can be me in front of them I had like a chance to meet this girl, sisters friend asked my sister to meet with two of them on a cofee, after Mass, but i refused. Also on those places i...
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    Hopeless

    Year has passed nothing has changed, some things are getting worse, like i gained few pounds, i still not much, because i was pretty good at that my whole life, but if i continue i fear it will become worse. The main problem is my inability to work, for some reason i dont do my job, i only go...
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    Hopeless

    People help, i'm stuck in this dopamine loop of porn, internet scrolling, sugar and sleeping long addiction. I have a job of driving (Uber,Bolt) but since im the owner and because of my situation i didnt drove that much so far, i have some money earned and i dont spend much so i have no imidiate...
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    Hopeless

    Offcourse it had to be some logical thing... I dont trust those medical opinions, they are there to keep people in despair. I did it without medication, without help from specialist, now i dont have it more than any other normal person, so it can be done, i will try to find a book it helped...
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    Hopeless

    @AlexB23 it extremely weird that you replied to topic i posted eight months ago, just at same time i started to write this huge update to my situation Anyway i know offcourse some basic stuff like hard boiled egg, but i didnt mentioned that or some other basic stuff like that i could do... As...
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    Hopeless

    Sorry i didnt reply @studentinprayer Anyway i came back home to my parents, because they have a lot of free space, The reason was because my plan was to work whole summer, so because of my weakness ,i get in bad mental place, and stay home instead go to work, it was harder to do that with...
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    Hopeless

    As for programming I read from lot of people I guess the same thing you are saying, so I guess I ll do that As for that other part, do you recommend the book?
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    Hopeless

    Thank you my man
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    Hopeless

    Well I guess I was number two out of those four, but i guess i didnt know that or anything about women, but with with my last girlfriend I kinda through that relationship found out about it, so I totally see man and women and their relationships in totally different way now, but realizing it I...
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    Hopeless

    I had a bad relationship with my father basically my whole life, it's little better last few years I played futsal in lower league, but we fell apart as a team last year, also my work in telecomunications was outdoor, part of it was physical work, but not hard physical work so I lost there a...
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    Hopeless

    I don't like to cook, I actually feel good when driving, and in my country you could earn a lot during the summer that way, but it's not something that I want to do my whole life, so my plan was to learn programming during three-four months in winter and work rest of the year, and do that until...
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    Hopeless

    Well I did, that would be the great thing, but not sure where to go, the one that I would like to go unfortunately died, he was old though, there was one with whom I used go play football with, but he is not in the city anymore, one that I feel like he judges me when he hears me, and two guys in...
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    Anyone else struggle with being lonely but also wanting to be single?

    i feel lonely a lot, but my problem is i that i believe i have to be perfect or atleast much better man than i am now to be in relationship. But my advice is if there is any chance of normal relationship go for it, there are no soulmates and love of your lifes, so dont look for perfect women...
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    Hopeless

    They are trained to give you pills that people get addicted to, like Xanax or antidepressants...i ve done that few years ago, I won't again