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Recent content by AJH16

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    Did You Ask God?

    Well it is true that I asked God, but he actually took the initiative with my current relationship. I asked him for wisdom about which of several possible girls I should date if any and through several sets of "coincidences" that were just a little too unlikely to happen by chance, he really...
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    How far can you go

    I would have to disagree with the parents part of this because ultimatly a relationship is a private thing. You wouldn't share the emotional connection you have with your SO with your parents, so why would you share the physical aspects either? That said, I think a better question is "How...
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    Will you expect/be a submissive wife?

    I think bliz really hit it right on the head. I've already seen it a fair amount in my relationship with my girlfriend as well. If being submissive to your husband/bf means you are frequently disagreeing with him, something is probably very off. The idea behind this whole thing is that men...
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    If you're in a Christian relationship, is it wrong to marry after only 6 months?

    My thought on this is that it depends greatly on if you knew the person before dating them. I really don't think that 6 months is enough time to get to know someone sufficiently well in most cases. There may be some exceptions, but there are a lot of sides of someone that you won't see within...
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    At what point did you realize you loved them?

    Neither my GF or I had dated before, even though we were both in college when we met. I had also always taken a long time to start feeling attracted to someone in the sense of wanting to date them, so I was very surprised when I felt myself being drawn towards my gf after only a few weeks of...
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    Communication Skills

    You know, this may sound really wierd, but for my girlfriend and I, we simply talked about our desire to have really open communication and so we do. For whatever reason, probably God, we just trust each other almost explicitly right off the back. I know that I had to share some really painful...
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    Kissing the neck?

    Well, I havn't had my girlfriend specifically kiss me on the neck, so I can't speak for certain, but I know from other significant kissing experiences that it doesn't lead me in to any temptation. It is a turn on, but I don't find myself wanting to do anything else. I will however mention...