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Recent content by ADeadVoice

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    Losing one's self.

    Elijah2 are you aware that this thread was not started by M4J? we are only supposed to be giving advise to the op, or so I thought
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    Losing one's self.

    Now if as you said, this is not you but all hypothetical, Understand that these are questions that all of us entertain as humans from time to time, Sound advise on the doctor thing, or it could just be growing up?? Honestly No one can give you a simple answer on this question, It's such a...
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    Introduce Yourself

    Hi I'm Lex And i just found this forum...hopefully you'll be seeing more of me oh and I'm a canadian!
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    Would God want you to marry someone you don't love?

    God would not want you to marry someone you do not love. And this woman seems to be pressuring you into something Pray about it. But also ask yourself, are you allowing yourself to be manipulated by her words?
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    To go out, or not to go out...

    well I think that its ok, as long as you can handle it... if you are there for the right reasons and you know that some people are there for the wrong reasons, yah an informed club goer...I dont see anything wrong with it just dont go playing with fire. Its all about how you feel
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    Degrees?

    Criminology and Psychology
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    Why I'm angry at the world......

    M4J :wave: Dont undermine your talents, even if its becaue someone taught you how to do it it is still an amazing acheivement, I wouldn't be able to accomplish that, even after being taught 50 times... I think It is wonderful that you can transpose music for worship (and other things) we had...
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    "HAI! Little girl dressed in black in the back--yer goin to hell!"

    I think what Theogonia is refering to is that having a pointless arguement on how to "best" show God's love is not going to help the OP.
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    "HAI! Little girl dressed in black in the back--yer goin to hell!"

    So heres the thing, Loving your friends is not a sin, supporting their sins, is. SO by loving your friends you are showing them God through your own actions, now lets say you where with them while they where performing these sins, that would be different all together. Eating or Not eating meat...
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    So he told me that he is gay

    The Best advise I can give, is be the sister you always were, I don't think there is anything super special you can do to show your love for him more now in his time of need. He told you about this, thus indicating he cares about you, and cares about your opinion, Let him know you still love him...
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    Remembering to Pray Before Meals

    Also post-its work, you could put one on your debit card or something that way if your out you will remember. once your in the habit of it though it will get easier and you will not forget as much
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    Why I'm angry at the world......

    I do believe what madeclean was commenting on about your arrogance was how you take everything that everyone says (whether you agree or not) and Pick it apart bit by bit, until it is something that you deem acceptable. but that is just the impression I got from it, also you messaged back even...
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    Why I'm angry at the world......

    I dont know if I agree with that statement "an unloving christian is an impossibility" We ALL fall we all have moments of hatred, selfishness, sinfullness, Just because we sin does not mean we are no longer christian, I cannot say that I have never felt Hate, selfish, prideful, and yes I...
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    i want to fast but

    you could always do a different fast (like not from food) I have health issues that make it so I will never be able to fast like that some of the things Ive done instead have been Taking a Vow of silence, 2 days, no talking, no voluntary noises, no music, no internet, just silence, me and a...
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    What do you think of taking a university course that

    If you have to take it then be very careful when taking it, Last year I took this course (studies in fiction) and I was thinking cool right? WRONG the topic ended up being very sketchy so I was pretty torn up about it, I mean we had to read books that I just didnt want to put in my mind, however...