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Recent content by acodno

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    Whacky Mass Video

    I'm not sure what has everyone so weirded out. I am going to assume it's the dancing, because everything else seems somewhat normal for Catholicism. Honestly I guess it's just differences of opinion. Some people praise and worship the lord through song and some do it through dance, I personally...
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    Anyone married to a police officer?

    This thread is from quite a while ago. I'm little late in posting something, but I just found it so what can it hurt. I am married to a police officer, but only for a year. Well I say a year because he has only been an actual police officer for a year, but I have been married to a police officer...
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    What are YOU doing?

    Right now I am a wife, and a mother of a 2 year old boy. I am going to school (sometimes half time sometimes full time), to become a counselor. In 20 years I would like to have a house in the country. My kids will probably be in high school or getting close. So I would like to be financially...
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    intimate apparel

    You can't really say any of that not knowing their situation personally. He might not expect it of his wife, he might just enjoy it and wonder why she stopped. You also don't know if he is doing everything he can do to make her happy. No women should EVER have to do anything she does not want to...
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    Ugh. Staying with friend

    I don't think you should ever ignore a problem, even if he's going through a lot. Just make sure you comfort him and show you care about what he's going through. You can try to find different approaches about the issues you have, but do not ignore it. If you ignore it and something does happen...
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    Angry...

    I don't think the problem is people's perception of "breasts". The problem is the way some women use their breast to sexually attract. It would be a lot easier for a man to see breasts as something God created for breast feeding, bottom line, but that's just not the way it is. Even God knew...
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    sex question...*blush*

    If you are suggesting that by everyone's comments, they are making a stereotype I think you should look back over the threads. You have been the only one to name names, and labels. Anyone who reads these threads and reads well, knows that people are saying they don't think Christians should...
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    sex question...*blush*

    I was under the impression that this was the kind of place we're supposed to go to discuss things.
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    fondling the same as adultry?

    If you want to stay at the church, there is no reason you should be the one that has to leave. He is the one that made the mistake. However, since its a church and anyone is free to attend, he doesn't have to stop going. Is he wanting to stay? If he is then it's kind of a hard situation...
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    fondling the same as adultry?

    A lot of people quoted that the bible says if you look at a women lustfully that you commit adultery, but it says you commit adultery in your heart (some people said that). I believe that the sin we commit occurs when we first think it in our heads, because we are not being Christ like. That is...
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    fondling the same as adultry?

    If he is saying that "all" he did was fondle than I don't think he is at a place worthy of being taken back. He needs to be able to admit what he did was adultery and know that it was a sin. Otherwise what is to keep him from doing it again. A man that thinks he is not capable of committing...
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    The Chronicles of Narnia: The Lion, The Witch and The Wardrobe

    He also played Schindler in Schindler's List. Probably one of the greatest noblest roles anyone would want to play in a movie. If you saw that movie (if you haven't go rent it and watch it right away) you would understand why Liam Neeson would be an awesome Aslan. You shouldn't judge someone...
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    The Lion, the Witch, and the Wardrobe

    They are doing a big screen movie of The lion, the witch, and the wardrobe. Has anyone seen the preview or trailer for it? I haven't, my sister saw it when she went to see a movie. I hardly ever get to the movies so I haven't had the opportunity. She said it looked awesome, so I am really...