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Recent content by AbbyNormal

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    is it sexual assault? or not?

    If one party is sober, male or female, and one party is not, I definitely think the sober one is taking advantage of the other and that it is wrong. I guess it is difficult sometimes to know when someone has had too much to drink, but I figure that if one isn't sure whether the other is drunk or...
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    is it sexual assault? or not?

    What?? If the guy is sober and the girl is drunk, the blame is definitely on him in that case. He knows he would be taking advantage of her.
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    is it sexual assault? or not?

    Maybe I wasn't clear. No, I am not saying women are weak. Hell no! Ok, basically, this situation happened to someone I know and her doctor is saying it was sexual assault and she could press charges. They wanted her to go see a sexual abuse counselor and whatnot and were telling her it wasnt her...
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    is it sexual assault? or not?

    Here's a situation I would like thoughts on. So, suppose there are a couple of friends who go drinking together. After quite a lot of alcohol, the girl decides its a good idea to hit on the guy. Long story short, they sleep together, no sort of protection involved and she feels like an idiot...