Mary of Bethany ?
Mary Magdalene ?
Take this to the Catholic forum; see how much traction you can gain there. The importance of the Mary's is not in dispute, but like all of us who are not called and ordained to preach the Gospel or administering the sacraments; our calling in the priesthood of all believers is to serve the Lord in what ever capacity with what ever gifts we have to serve; short of the public preaching and administration of the sacraments.
Forgive me if I am reading this wrong, but in the context of the Catholic Church as well as my Church (LCC), this whole idea seems more centered around self than around God. It is about what you want rather than what God and His Church has stipulated and maintains.
The Catholic Church offers a few more opportunities for women than does my church. Various convents and religious orders are available, we have Deaconesses (different than Deacons). Women reading from Scripture within the context of the liturgy, and even assisting during mass, which we do not allow.
Time posting here about what you can't do might bear more fruit if you spent more time seeking opportunities to serve our Lord, in humility, within the parameters of your Church, within our station in life where God has placed us.
Pray earnestly for the direction you need and don't worry about what you want but submit to what God wants, as Christ submitted to the Father's will, sacrificing His very life on the cross for us.
Rember, serving our Lord in what we see as the smallest of ways is no less important. Matthew 25:40;
And the King will answer them, ‘Truly, I say to you, as you did it to one of the least of these my brothers, you did it to me.’