Most of what you've said in this reply is true. The following statement may be also. It is however incorrect as a philosophy.
What is going on here is that people with gender confusion or homosexuality have been ostracized, outlawed and persecuted for so long that their self image is tattered. Perhaps since the 60's there has been an effort to accept one's self as is.
God accepts us as we are. True.
He also demands immediate change. We are to be conformed into His image not our own. Those who wish to be accepted as they are and are opposed to Him, those who believe they can live after the flesh stomping those little feet and demanding acceptance for ungodly behavior are on a highway to hell. We do them no favor when we soft peddle the truth. That is not love, that is watching a child playing in a freeway 1 second from being destroyed and telling ourselves how much we loved them and what good kids they were. Convincing ourselves that they were misunderstood we blow some smoke about them being in a better place. They are not. And we are culpable. While confidence in God first and ourselves as we continually position ourselves to align with His image is healthy. Confidence in ourselves apart from God is a ticket to the lake of fire.
That is a harsh blanket judgment.
Scripture is harsh. I love you, accept my gift or burn.
I am accustomed to some who either ignore scripture or don't know it, using the, "Don't judge" blather. WE ARE TO JUDGE THOSE IN THE CHURCH. We are to encourage, and rebuke.
Pro, 27:5
Open rebuke is better than secret love.
6 Faithful are the wounds of a friend; but the kisses of an enemy are deceitful.
Paul shames the church at Corinth for their acceptance of some guy hooking up with his Fathers wife, not hooking up with his husband.
1 Cor 5:1
It is actually reported that there is sexual immorality among you, and sexual immorality of such a kind as does not exist even among the Gentiles, namely, that someone has his father’s wife. 2 You have become arrogant and have not mourned instead, so that the one who had done this deed would be removed from your midst.
3 For I, on my part, though absent in body but present in spirit, have already judged him who has so committed this, as though I were present. 4 In the name of our Lord Jesus, when you are assembled, and I with you in spirit, with the power of our Lord Jesus, 5 I have decided to turn such a person over to Satan for the destruction of his body, so that his spirit may be saved on the day of the Lord.
Romans 1:24
Therefore God gave them up to vile impurity in the lusts of their hearts, so that their bodies would be dishonored among them. 25 For they exchanged the truth of God for falsehood, and worshiped and served the creature rather than the Creator, who is blessed forever. Amen.
26 For this reason God gave them over to degrading passions; for their women exchanged natural relations for that which is contrary to nature, 27 and likewise the men, too, abandoned natural relations with women and burned in their desire toward one another, males with males committing shameful acts and receiving in their own persons the due penalty of their error.
Acceptance of queers is fine. Acceptance of and agreement with the lifestyle is not. Lot was surrounded by them. So he must have done business with them and even had friends among them, he did not agree with them
2 Peter, 2:8For that righteous man dwelling among them, in seeing and hearing, vexed his righteous soul from day to day with their unlawful deeds.
If some desire to live in sin that's their option. I have grandchildren in grade 5 and 6. When they inculcate them in the path to destruction I absolutely resist. What is worse however is the chorus of horsepucky spewing from the mouths of alleged believers in agreement.
I believe you believe, so if if you don't include yourself in that deception neither do I.
Gotta go. Will review with corrections later.