"I hate the concept of transgender"
I agree, was an interpretation of (I can't stand the LGBTQ agenda." That makes me wonder who has a national LGBTQ agenda that a united group or lobby that has specific demands agreed upon in a national consensus other than the right to be treated equally.
So I retract that statement, it was exaggerated. Having said that, have you spoken with anyone who has the opinion that transgenders are freaks or they would prefer not to see one? I surely have.
If you think secular = "disagreement with Christians" you're wrong. Secular nations and Christian nations alike agree on a whole cornucopia of laws from murder to theft.
I don't think that secularism needs to be against the church's rules. Christianity and humanism are almost the same. They both believe in helping others, basically feeding the hungry, housing the homeless, and clothing the naked. They have different ways of going about these using humanitarian values. One difference is Christians are more likely to support things like going on an offensive war, approving of the death penalty, or regulating women's reproductive rights.
The cool thing about democracy is that if you can get enough Christians to agree on a Christian value-based law, you can get it passed provided it doesn't violate the Constitution.
The problem here is that a bunch of people who can't justify their beliefs or make a rational argument or debate openly without prejudice or attacking someone's character have decided that anyone who disagrees with them has to stay silent... or they're doing some kind of imaginary "harm" ....are trying to push their moral views on others because it gives them an undeserved sense of righteousness.
Don't both sides do this? Have you seen one of those protests where both sides are there like Abortion or the death penalty, even stem cell research can cause a big mess.
Everyone is entitled to their opinions and no one is harmed by words.
I agree but words can also intimidate, threaten, and command.
Nobody needs to be told what words they should use by anyone else nor does anyone have any reason to believe themselves morally superior to anyone else.
I understand we shouldn't have to but when is it really appropriate to abandon basic decency? If you are talking about pronouns, I no we don't have to use them by law but what's the harm in calling someone by the pronoun they wish to be called. If someone has on makeup and a dress, I don't think it would be hard to remember they prefer to be called "she." People don't have a duty to do this but how is it harmful? You said yourself that