Sorry, I'm just now going through everything and trying to navigate the complexities and multifaceted history and politics that people are presenting. Very interesting but resembles the same ole arguments that I hear at work all the time.
Anyway, wouldn't you say that judging or condemning homosexuals and causing them to either commit suicide or turn away from the Church would also be doing the people a disservice?
Jesus didn't come to condemn so if we were to be like Jesus, shouldn't we also not condemn?
I wouldn't say that people are explaining away homosexuality as much as trying to make sense of it. If you were born a homosexual wouldn't you try to make sense of it? I think these people just want to be accepted which I think is the whole point. I don't feel that people would push for acceptance if it wasn't condemned in the first place. Do you feel differently?
I get what you're saying here but the transformation should come from either Jesus or God right? and not from fellow Christians?
Because homosexuals have decided their sexuality describes their person, when in my mind it doesn't, it makes it difficult to speak to people on these topics these days.
I have never considered a person to "be a" homosexual. Homosexual behavior is an act and a desire that God calls a sin and it's even indicated Scripturally as a particular judgement from God. But to me it's not a person or even necessarily a personality. I've met homosexuals in real life who are perfectly normal people, they don't go around acting weird and making people feel like they ought to be calling the mental health cops soon. (The same cannot be said for the transgender I met... That was exorcist stuff)
Here's the issue at play for myself as a Christian.
The church Scripturally is required to abide church discipline within the church. (1 Corinthians 5:12-13)
Behaviors in the world outside the church itself, that's something completely different. I believe God allows man a certain amount of liberty to sin, in order to eventually bring them into the fold.
However, inside the church, there is to be a certain level of church discipline. Let's say your church has 40 regular members. Those 40 members know one another, do "church" activities together, have coffee and visit at one another's houses. You know who everyone is.
The idea of church discipline is twofold, first is to uphold the outside appearance of the church as well as the internal integrity of doctrine etc. But the second reason is we help each other with our sin struggles (and we all have them), giving advice and encouraging each other to stay strong in the face of adversity.
The Christian life, just life itself, can be difficult and we may falter and fall into some sin, but we ask forgiveness and get back up and go at it again.
Christians are supposed to encourage and support one another.
Let's say a man who used to be homosexual is saved, and legitimately so.
this same man who is now newly saved, well first he has to learn how to even be a Christian, and it's a learning process. As Christians we are to uphold the moral laws of God, but what those are exactly is a learning process.
WIth guidance from the Holy Spirit this same man will begin to change his life as he grows in knowledge. He'll put away the old man and begin to put on the new.
As he does this the church should be supportive and encouraging, teaching and guiding the way. This is the job of the church and why we have one another as brothers and sisters.
Is it possible that in a moment of weakness he looks backwards? Yes... It's entirely possible. But He will ask forgiveness and pick back up again and follow the path.
it's a process for us all, and homosexuals are no different than us.
But, a homosexual will hear sermons on homosexuality, the same as gossips will hear sermons on gossipping (one of the local churches had something to say about the gossips in church on their main street church sign... But gossiping here is like the national past time. I think far more time needs spent on the gossips myself... Lol) and thieves will hear sermons on stealing.
The Bible in Christ Jesus and the disciples are our perfect standard. And it's a standard we all fail in the light of. All of us.
if I want to feel judged all I have to do is randomly open to any page of the Bible and read all about what I'm not yet, and read what the standard is and realize I have work to do... All my new clothes aren't on yet. Try it, you'll find the same. This is why Christ had to save us. We desperately needed a Savior.
Any homosexual will do the same. We are all judged.
But we walk the path toward righteousness daily. If we aren't even trying to walk that path, we were never saved in the first place.
I'll quote from Piper here so you can better understand:
The key verse that he’s referring to goes like this: “For if we go on sinning deliberately after receiving the knowledge of the truth, there no longer remains a sacrifice for sins” (Hebrews 10:26). In other words, we’re beyond salvation.
Now, two observations about this phrase “go on sinning deliberately” are really important.
First, the word deliberately translates the Greek hekousiōs. This word is used in 1 Peter 5:2 like this: “Shepherd the flock of God that is among you, exercising oversight, not under compulsion, but willingly [hekousiōs].” Willingly — here is the same word that we translate as deliberately in Hebrews 10:26.
Now, what this usage shows (and the reason I cite it) is that there are two different kinds of willing, aren’t there? One is eager and wholehearted, and the other is under compulsion.
In both cases, one could argue that the elders are in fact exercising their will to shepherd the flock of God. In the one case, it’s glad. It’s an act that engages the whole will. It’s happy and energized. In the other case, it’s begrudging, an act that evidently goes against significant parts of the will because they would rather be doing something else. They don’t really want to shepherd the flock of God, but for money or for fame or to avoid guilty feelings they gut it out and shepherd the flock of God.
This text, Hebrews 10:26, is saying something more than than the sin which destroys the soul is an act of the will. Of course, it is, but it’s more than that. All sins are acts of the will, and not all sins destroy. It’s a more intentional, eager, wholehearted act of the will. An act which shows there isn’t a real identity of spiritual newness inside, which acts as a constraint holding back the will, at least in part." End Quote
All sin involves the will. But continuing to sin deliberately — with eagerness and persistence — will destroy the soul.
www.desiringgod.org
Therefore, when a church has to decide on church discipline as shown in 1 Corinthians 5:12-13, they have to determine whether what they are seeing is a begrudging behavior, something the individual has true remorse over, or whether they are in a settled, unrepentant pattern of sin.
But of course the church should be there teaching, guiding, encouraging and supporting so no one of us goes off a cliff..