1. Why is it eternally okay and fine to own other humans as property; for which one person can beat another, just short of death, for life?
Because antebellum slavery was an abuse of scripture that cherrypicked verses in order to justify the practice. The Old South was abusing scripture the whole time, just as atheists do to craft their accusations (they follow almost the same antebellum interpretation).
Thus, it was necessary to abolish antebellum slavery altogether; even to fight a Civil War over it. If the entire scripture were truly followed, all the way through to the NT, then the slave and master would
voluntarily submit to one another as each others' slave in mutual loving submission (Ephesians 6:9). <-- Slavery cannot exist without threat(s).
But just for the sake of argument, let's take the NT out of the picture (as the atheist compartmentalizes it). Antebellum slavery in the Old South couldn't even win on Old Testament alone!
For example, you can't assume that anyone automatically knows in the heat of the moment exactly how many times you can beat someone "
just short of death." And you can't realistically imagine the target will just stand there and not try to instinctively duck, or put their hands up (what kind-of cartoon scenario is being proposed here?).
Often, one well-placed punch to the back of the head can result in instant death.
There were no MRIs in ancient Israel, and so that Mosaic law you're obliquely referring to was a
deterrent;
not a license.
If the antebellum South followed just the Old Testament, then slaves would be freed every 7 years under Mosaic manumission.
"
B-but that only applied to Jewish slaves!"
Yes, but foreigners could convert to Judaism. Even while a slave. This kept a check on paganism. But one of the benefits of conversion is that you were free in 7 years.
I can expand on this further with direct scripture citations included, if necessary.
2. Why is it eternally never okay for women to have authority over men, in specific situations?
Because Complementarianism is easier on the woman, that's why. The man has no excuse to abdicate personal responsibility. Authority comes from providing security, or being willing to lay down one's
entire life for both the uterus, the fruit of that uterus, as well as the one who is nurturing that uterus. Otherwise, you're burdening the woman with all the work. The man's role is that of servant leadership.
Again, now that the Euthyphro is essentially off the table, maybe the apologists can merely explain why THE Standard for goodness deems such categories eternally 'good', or at least eternally 'perfectly acceptable'?
Because God behaves according to His nature (of Holiness). Control-freaks and idolaters hate this, because they demand a god they can control.