One does not become a child of God when he is elected before the foundation of the world. One becomes a child of God when he believes and is justified before God. Until the time when he becomes a child of God he is as lost in unbelief as the reprobate are.
God's wrath is revealed from Heaven in this present age because of unbelif. You and I were in unbelief before being adopted in Christ through faith.
Excuse my printing out a long passage. I know you have heard it before and could look it up yourself if necessary. But it may help in the thread to have it here for all to see.
Romans 1:18-32
"For the wrath of God is revealed from heaven against ALL ungodliness and unrighteousness of men who suppress the truth in unrighteousness, because that which is known about God is evident within them; for God made it evident to them. For since the creation of the world His invisible attributes, His eternal power and divine nature, have been clearly seen, being understood through what has been made, so that they are without excuse. For even though they knew God, they did not honor Him as God or give thanks, but they became futile in their speculations, and their foolish heart was darkened. Professing to be wise, they became fools, and exchanged the glory of the incorruptible God for an image in the form of corruptible man and of birds and four-footed animals and crawling creatures.
Therefore God gave them over in the lusts of their hearts to impurity, so that their bodies would be dishonored among them. For they exchanged the truth of God for a lie, and worshiped and served the creature rather than the Creator, who is blessed forever. Amen.
For this reason God gave them over to degrading passions; for their women exchanged the natural function for that which is unnatural, and in the same way also the men abandoned the natural function of the woman and burned in their desire toward one another, men with men committing indecent acts and receiving in their own persons the due penalty of their error."
And just as they did not see fit to acknowledge God any longer, God gave them over to a depraved mind, to do those things which are not proper, being filled with all unrighteousness, wickedness, greed, evil; full of envy, murder, strife, deceit, malice; they are gossips, slanderers, haters of God, insolent, arrogant, boastful, inventors of evil, disobedient to parents, without understanding, untrustworthy, unloving, unmerciful; and although they know the ordinance of God, that those who practice such things are worthy of death, they not only do the same, but also give hearty approval to those who practice them."
That was the condition me and it was the condition of the likes of Ted Bundy until such time as he was brought to faith by grace just before his death.
If one has, as it were, gone down to the river and identified with fallen mankind in the process of obtaining forgivness through faith - he will have no trouble seeing himself under the wrath of God and in need of the work of Christ on his behalg.
The wrath of God is revealed in this age through escalating unbelief and debauchery of various kinds. It is the "judgment of abandonment" to the ways of the rebellious world.
I was in that condition before my conversion. I was becoming more and more rebellious toward God up until the time of His effectual calling of me. The same was true of the Apostle Paul as Saul of Tarsus.
Notice that it specifically says that God's wrath abides on "all" unrighteousness - not just that of the likes of Adolf Hitler or any others of the reprobate.
That abiding under the wrath of God did not cease until I was justified through faith in Jesus Christ.