Matthew 23:37 is a statement of Judgment. It is not about Salvation. Context matters.
And the amazing thing is not that God hated Esau, but that God loves anyone. God is not obliged to man.
Matthew 23:38 "Behold, your house is left unto you desolate."
This is about salvation. Christ JUDGED them to not be saved. You cannot separate judgment from salvation here.
God never had an emotional hate towards the individual Esau. He did have less favor for the Edomites while having "more favor" for the Israelites....see Gen 29:30,31:
"he loved also Rachel more than Leah" = " Leah was hated"
"God is love" 1 John 4:8 so it is not surprising to me that God loves man even though man "breaks God's heart" in those choices they make...God still loves them.
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