God makes us strong when we rely on him when the time comes, that is, if we put everything in his hand. If you were to hold onto one thing and one thing only, what would that be?
I hope you would say the Lord.
Because if you said your mother, sister, brother or someone else, then once that person is no longer in your life, you have lost everything. If you hold onto only one thing and your holding onto Christ for dear life, then you will not suffer loss.
I look at my life and sometimes I ask the Lord I was only born yesterday so to speak, who are these strangers that you have introduced to me. Were not my mother, sister, wife, daughters, sons strangers to me not long ago.
Hmmmmmmmm...............
When we look towards created beings the family is conceived and constructed in this life time and beyond this life they revert to being strangers that we did not know. That is why I say I never knew Mary to begin with, so how could I establish a relationship with a person whom I didn't know.
Jesus have an excellent answer to the Sadducees who gave him the example of the women that married seven brother. Jesus answered in heaven they will not marry, meaning they will not carry the constructs of this lifetime into the eternal life to comes.