Those are retroviral genes, not ape genes. That's why they are called endogenous retroviruses, not endogenous ape genomes.
The retrovirus does not take host DNA with it. Only the viral genome is used to make a new viral particle.
None of the ape genome is carried in ERV's. Viral particles only contain the viral genome.
Also, are you saying that ERV's only appeared in the human genome the day that you were conceived? Did these retroviruses spread across the globe while you were just a baby, creating the same 200,000 ERV insertions across the entire human population? Do you really think that?
Or could it be that you share these 200,000 ERV's at the same position with your other family members because you inherited those ERV's from a common ancestor?
What we observe is that orthologous ERV's are inherited vertically, not horizontally. Independent insertions produce non-orthologous insertions.
Orthologous ERV's shared with chimps shows that those ERV's entered into the lineage of our common ancestor before the chimp and human lineages split.
" Given the size of vertebrate genomes (>1 × 10^9 bp) and the random nature of retroviral integration (
22,
23), multiple integrations (and subsequent fixation) of ERV loci at precisely the same location are highly unlikely (
24). Therefore, an ERV locus shared by two or more species is descended from a single integration event and is proof that the species share a common ancestor into whose germ line the original integration took place (
14)."
http://www.pnas.org/content/96/18/10254.full
You haven't shown that I am mistaken. All you have done is invent this myth that retroviruses take host DNA with them. It doesn't happen.
Do you understand how babies are made? It isn't magic, although it can be magical.
The fact that we find the same ERV at the same location in the chimp genome is that evidence that it was inherited by both chimps and humans from a common ancestor. If an ERV popped out of an ape genome and then inserted into the human genome it would produce a non-orthologous ERV, an ERV that was in a different position in the human genome compared to the ape genome.