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Wow. It really boggles the mind that womankind needs to be taught elementary things about what it means to be a woman. That the purpose of a womb is to protect and nurture the life that's there. That just because it's your womb doesn't mean you should use that as a license to destroy what's growing inside. To have to explain to women that it is a good thing to sacrifice for their growing child, the way mothers have done for human history. To have to explain to a woman that they shouldn't intentionally harm their child. To read people mocking the thought of doing what's right for a child....There is something seriously wrong with that. What a scary generation we live in.
If abortion is murder than by that logic a miscarriage is manslaughter.
So... we good on the pregnancy camps then? When can we schedule you for a nice freedom-free visit?
Wow. It really boggles the mind that womankind needs to be taught elementary things about what it means to be a woman. That the purpose of a womb is to protect and nurture the life that's there. That just because it's your womb doesn't mean you should use that as a license to destroy what's growing inside. To have to explain to women that it is a good thing to sacrifice for their growing child, the way mothers have done for human history. To have to explain to a woman that they shouldn't intentionally harm their child. To read people mocking the thought of doing what's right for a child....There is something seriously wrong with that. What a scary generation we live in.
My comment was not intended to provide a definition of womanhood. But rather to point out that there are things that women should understand innately, because they are women.
The person who thinks abortion is murder would not consider a miscarriage a crime. Since it is not an act a person does. If a woman induces a miscarriage intentionally, that would be a different story.
Were abortion classed as murder and all rights conveyed to fetuses then every miscarriage would need to be investigated to determine its cause. Were a miscarriage cause due to the actions of the woman, lacking intent, that would make it manslaughter or negligent homicide.
Yes, unless she over the abortion time....if someone punched a pregnant woman in the stomach and caused her to have a miscarriage, should they only get the basic assault charge that one would get if she wasn't pregnant at all?
And I suppose you are personally gifted with the knowledge of what all women *should* understand innately? You are one woman. This may be what you understand about being a woman, but you don't speak for all of us, and you don't get to decide what all of us should do or feel.My comment was not intended to provide a definition of womanhood. But rather to point out that there are things that women should understand innately, because they are women.
It should come naturally to women to nurture and protect a life growing inside her. Just like it's instinctive for a woman to protect her children outside of the womb, it is instinctive for her to protect her child in the womb.
We all owe our lives to some woman who, most likely, followed those instincts. Had they done otherwise, we would not have been born or would have been born with birth defects, disorders, addictions, etc. But again, these are not things that I think need to be explained to reasonable people. As evidenced by the fact that when they want to have children, they follow the protective instincts I'm describing.
People have enjoyed a few decades of having a right to decide when life is life, when it should be protected, and when it can be destroyed, and they are not willing to give up that right, even though it's based on blatantly inconsistent logic. All that matters is that it is self serving. That's why they are not willing to relinquish it.
And to those people suggesting that miscarriages are manslaughter if abortion is murder. Um, no. There is a difference between committing suicide and dying of natural causes. There is a difference between intentionally killing your toddler in their sleep and your toddler dying on their own from some disease. The person who thinks abortion is murder would not consider a miscarriage a crime. Since it is not an act a person does. If a woman induces a miscarriage intentionally, that would be a different story.
Ultimately the issue is intentionality. And I believe that people are smart enough to recognize that, but simply enjoy raising non issues as if they were actual points with merit, or they simply enjoy mocking people who value human life.
...if someone punched a pregnant woman in the stomach and caused her to have a miscarriage, should they only get the basic assault charge that one would get if she wasn't pregnant at all?
Yes, unless she over the abortion time.
And I suppose you are personally gifted with the knowledge of what all women *should* understand innately? You are one woman. This may be what you understand about being a woman, but you don't speak for all of us, and you don't get to decide what all of us should do or feel.
That is very true. When a woman becomes pregnant, the hormones released in her body tend to make her feel a strong instinct to protect the baby. That is why most women DO carry to term, even if they got pregnant accidentally. But instinct is not the only factor here. Even if the woman has a natural instinct to take care of the fetus, other things going on in her life may give her a reason to overcome that instinct. Humans are not slaves to their instincts, for good or ill.
Indeed, and those who don't follow the protective instincts don't have children. You need explain nothing. This is all common knowledge.
It may be selfish, but that doesn't mean they don't have a right to do it.
When the blood banks come around looking for donations, I don't line up. I know some people don't donate because they are afraid of the pain. Others simply don't care that with some minor inconvenience, they could save a life. A few selfishly don't want to give their blood to someone else. Some have religious reasons not to. Some are not allowed to give blood because their blood is unfit for transfusions.
For me, the reason is physiological--I've tried several times and each time they just end up breaking my tiny vein, no matter how much I drink before hand. Finally they just said I should stop trying, it would only waste blood bags.
What's my point? Everyone who decides not to give blood can do so for whatever reason they want. Even if it is purely selfish. Even if they have a rare blood type and without their donation, someone else will die. It is their body and their decision about who gets access to it when. Just because you choose to use a right selfishly, doesn't mean you shouldn't have it.
Sure, and how can you tell whether she induced it intentionally unless you investigate every miscarriage? As Desk pointed out, we would have to start with monthly pregnancy screenings, since so many miscarriages happen early enough that the woman doesn't even know she's pregnant.
Heavily implying that we -don't- value human life. Classy.
I consider a little sarcasm to be small beans compared to what you are advocating--stripping me of the right to control my own body. Which of us is really being less respectful here?
She's not going to understand that logic, she thinks all women should be incubators, whether they want to be or not.
Back to the original question, we can't have it both ways. If abortion is not murder, than beating up a pregnant woman and causing her to lose her child should not carry an offense beyond having assaulted her.
But beating up a woman and causing a miscarriage is not an abortion, so it could qualify as murder even though an abortion wouldn't.
Similar to how a doctor cutting me is not assault, but a guy on the street doing it would be.
That made no sense whatsoever.
The definition of murder cannot depend upon whether or not a child was wanted. It's simply illogical.
That made no sense whatsoever.