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Ultra-conservative Catholics are pushing the Bishops, particularly in New York, to either excommunicate Governor Cuomo or at least ban him from receiving communion because he signed the equality in marriage act into law. I've heard nothing about Catholic legislators who voted for the bill.

Personally, I am tired of the far rightwing of the Church using the Eucharist, the Body of Christ, as a political weapon. Is that what the Christ had in mind? I don't think so. What does anyone else think?
 
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I am not American and have not been following the controversy over the legalisation of gay marriage in New York state, but I agree with the article in National Catholic Reporter.

I believe that two men or two women who love each other and want to make a binding public and lifelong commitment in a religious service should be able to do so. In other words I believe in gay marriage.
 
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I am not American and have not been following the controversy over the legalisation of gay marriage in New York state, but I agree with the article in National Catholic Reporter.

I believe that two men or two women who love each other and want to make a binding public and lifelong commitment in a religious service should be able to do so. In other words I believe in gay marriage.

I'm with you. I believe in gay marriage too. They did not choose to become gay and they are born with it. So let's give them the liberty to love whoever they want.

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I'm with you. I believe in gay marriage too. They did not choose to become gay and they are born with it. So let's give them the liberty to love whoever they want.

I have to agree with these sentiments. More and more it seems clear religion and politics need to be completely separated. If a person chooses to believe gay marriage is wrong then that's OK, but there are others who think otherwise. No one has any right to impose morals on someone else. God gave us free will to live as we choose, but there are some holier-than-though types who are arrogant enough to try to make it their own business to take that free will away in defiance of God. That's not being a real Christian. As long as no one else is injured, let people live and believe what they want
 
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I have to agree with these sentiments. More and more it seems clear religion and politics need to be completely separated. If a person chooses to believe gay marriage is wrong then that's OK, but there are others who think otherwise. No one has any right to impose morals on someone else. God gave us free will to live as we choose, but there are some holier-than-though types who are arrogant enough to try to make it their own business to take that free will away in defiance of God. That's not being a real Christian. As long as no one else is injured, let people live and believe what they want


You are right, the one thing that God gave us is the power to decide for ourselves. It's like God will allow you to choose what you want. Sometimes we tell ourselves that it's up Him.. but again you can always decide for yourself as long as you are not stepping others foot.


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You are right, the one thing that God gave us is the power to decide for ourselves. It's like God will allow you to choose what you want. Sometimes we tell ourselves that it's up Him.. but again you can always decide for yourself as long as you are not stepping others foot.

I think for us believers we do and should say it's up to Him. Ultimately we decide for ourselves what to do (free will). However, I know God does have a will for my life that He wants me follow. I have the free will to accept or reject it. And following His will doesn't make our lives perfect. In fact, it can be very difficult. In the end though, I know I can't go wrong if I stay in His will.
 
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I am not American and have not been following the controversy over the legalisation of gay marriage in New York state, but I agree with the article in National Catholic Reporter.

I believe that two men or two women who love each other and want to make a binding public and lifelong commitment in a religious service should be able to do so. In other words I believe in gay marriage.
I totally agree with you!
LGBT people do not choose who they are. God made gay people in his image. It's about time the church realised this and became fully accepting. None of this life of chastity nonsense.
 
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I am not American and have not been following the controversy over the legalisation of gay marriage in New York state, but I agree with the article in National Catholic Reporter.

I believe that two men or two women who love each other and want to make a binding public and lifelong commitment in a religious service should be able to do so. In other words I believe in gay marriage.

Then you are not Catholic. You either accept the full faith or you reject all of it. There is no in between.

If you are taking communion right now, you shouldn't be, since you do not share the Eucharistic faith (I don't take communion, either, for many reasons.). This is a mortal sin.

Neither you nor I right now are in a state of grace. If we die, right now, we are both going to hell. I'm aware of this, and terrified, actually.
 
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If I am not a Catholic because of my views on gay marriage then neither was Gareth Moore, a British Dominican priest who died in 2002. Two or three years ago I read his book A Question of Truth: Christianity and Homosexuality - Amazon.com: Question of Truth: Christianity and Homosexuality (9780826459497): Gareth Moore: Books. It is an erudite and compassionate examination of the official Catholic teaching on homosexuality. In my opinion, in this book Moore argues persuasively in favour of gay marriage.

James Alison is a British Catholic author and theologian who has 'liberal' views on homosexualty. His website is here: James Alison. Theology.

There are many Catholic voices in favour of gay marriage, and it is an issue on which Catholics can legitimately disagree with the official teaching.
 
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If I am not a Catholic because of my views on gay marriage then neither was Gareth Moore, a British Dominican priest who died in 2002. Two or three years ago I read his book A Question of Truth: Christianity and Homosexuality - Amazon.com: Question of Truth: Christianity and Homosexuality (9780826459497): Gareth Moore: Books. It is an erudite and compassionate examination of the official Catholic teaching on homosexuality. In my opinion, in this book Moore argues persuasively in favour of gay marriage.

James Alison is a British Catholic author and theologian who has 'liberal' views on homosexualty. His website is here: James Alison. Theology.

There are many Catholic voices in favour of gay marriage, and it is an issue on which Catholics can legitimately disagree with the official teaching.

If you've been confirmed according to the Roman rite, then you are a Catholic. I always remember with tenderness the words of a nun who worked for the American Red Cross, her name was Mona Smiley. Sister Mona worked on education with regards to AIDS. When asked how she justified working for the Church considering various social stances, she replied, "oh you misunderstand, I am a subversive, working to challenge the Church to become better than it currently is." That was some 20 years ago, but it still delights me.
 
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Then you are not Catholic. You either accept the full faith or you reject all of it. There is no in between.

If you are taking communion right now, you shouldn't be, since you do not share the Eucharistic faith (I don't take communion, either, for many reasons.). This is a mortal sin.

Neither you nor I right now are in a state of grace. If we die, right now, we are both going to hell. I'm aware of this, and terrified, actually.

Goodness! In all seriousness and Christian charity, get thee to confession, my friend! :crossrc:

Don't keep yourself in danger like that. :eek:
 
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Hate the sin, love the sinner.

According to a survey of U.S. Catholics earlier this year, 46% of U.S. Catholics don't believe gay relationships are sinful. I agree with them. My brother is in a gay relationship (and he is a Eucharistic minister at our parish) and I see nothing sinful about his relationship.
 
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According to a survey of U.S. Catholics earlier this year, 46% of U.S. Catholics don't believe gay relationships are sinful. I agree with them. My brother is in a gay relationship (and he is a Eucharistic minister at our parish) and I see nothing sinful about his relationship.

how do they justify that?
 
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how do they justify that?

By "that" I am assuming you mean the percentage who disagree with "official" stances on the issue? If so, Catholics disagree with official stances on issues all of the time. As an example, many Catholics don't have an issue with re-marrying after a divorce. My mother was re-married in the Catholic Church and the priest told her not to worry about getting an annulment, even though she was prepared to do so.
 
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First of all – it doesn’t matter what you all think about homosexual unions. What matters is what the Church has declared n the matter

Jesus gave His Church complete and total Authority in matters of faith and morals (Matt. 16:18-19, Matt. 18:15-18, Luke 10:16, John 20:21-23) to speak on His behalf. He promised her that the Holy Spirit would guide her to ALL truth (John 16:12-15).
Neither your personal opinions – nor mine don’t determine what Truth is. Jesus is Truth itself (John 4:19) and His Church is the Pillar and Foundation of that Truth (1 Tim. 3:15). When you reject what the Church says about the sin of the homosexual lifestyle – you willfully reject Jesus and the Father (Luke 10:16).

That being said – those of you who approve of the homosexual lifestyle are stating this in SPITE of what the Scriptures and the Church have to say on the matter. The Bible explicitly teaches that the homosexual lifestyle is gravely sinful (Lev. 18:22, 20:13, Rom. 1:26-7) – as is all sexual immorality (Acts 21:25, 1 Cor. 10:8, 1 Tim. 1:9-11).

In sort - it doesn't matter one bit what individual Catholics believe about the homosexual lifestyle - no matter WHO they are or HOW many books they've written on the subject. A Dominican priest can be just as wrong as a liberal atheist . . .

"Tolerance is the virtue of a man without convictions." - G.K. Chesterton
 
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First of all – it doesn’t matter what you all think about homosexual unions. What matters is what the Church has declared n the matter

Jesus gave His Church complete and total Authority in matters of faith and morals (Matt. 16:18-19, Matt. 18:15-18, Luke 10:16, John 20:21-23) to speak on His behalf. He promised her that the Holy Spirit would guide her to ALL truth (John 16:12-15).
Neither your personal opinions – nor mine don’t determine what Truth is. Jesus is Truth itself (John 4:19) and His Church is the Pillar and Foundation of that Truth (1 Tim. 3:15). When you reject what the Church says about the sin of the homosexual lifestyle – you willfully reject Jesus and the Father (Luke 10:16).

That being said – those of you who approve of the homosexual lifestyle are stating this in SPITE of what the Scriptures and the Church have to say on the matter. The Bible explicitly teaches that the homosexual lifestyle is gravely sinful (Lev. 18:22, 20:13, Rom. 1:26-7) – as is all sexual immorality (Acts 21:25, 1 Cor. 10:8, 1 Tim. 1:9-11).

In sort - it doesn't matter one bit what individual Catholics believe about the homosexual lifestyle - no matter WHO they are or HOW many books they've written on the subject. A Dominican priest can be just as wrong as a liberal atheist . . .]

The Trinity is the Father, Son, and the Holy Ghost. It is NOT the Father, Son, and the Catholic church, or whatever version you want to come up with.

If you want to believe the RCC has all authority in all matters, and you want to accept 100% its teachings then that’s fine. That’s your right, and I will stand with you on that.

However, it needs to be understood that not all Christians (Catholic or other denominations) agree with you. Different people believe different things, or interpret scripture differently, and there’s not one individual nor organization that has it 100% correct. I’ve personally run into some Christians, with whom I don’t agree, who are very devout, very conservative, and very much against the RCC. They’ll cite Bible passages to show that what the RCC practices is unbiblical, and call it things that I won’t repeat here. However, they’re just a sure as you that what they believe is 100% truth, and anyone who believes something else is “lost” or “wrong.” That’s wrong, no matter who does it.

Bottom line is that we are all at different points in our walk of faith with Jesus. The Holy Spirit is within and guiding every Christian, not just the RCC. Everyone is different, so obviously there are different points of view on a great variety of subjects. With over 1 billion Catholics in the world, it would be foolish to think every single one can become like-minded and agree on everything just because the RCC teaches or says something is true.

We all struggle with some part of our faith. We’re constantly asking ourselves questions about truth, what are the correct interpretations of scripture, why we sometimes feel our conscious is telling us one thing while some scripture or the RCC may say the opposite, etc. That’s why we have a Liberal Catholics fórum here, so we can discuss and try to sort out these things in peace and in respect to one another. It is NOT intended for holier-than-though types to arrogantly come here and start shoving Catholic dogma down our throats just because the opinions expressed here sometimes differ from the official RCC position. It’s not only very ill mannered, but aginst the forum rules, and if we wanted that kind of treatment then we can just go to CAF or some other forum where that kind of thing is freely dispensed.

If someone wants to come here and point out an official RCC position because an error in stating it was made, then fine. If people want to respectfully debate about whether a person can/should be Catholic if he/she disagrees with the RCC on some issues, then fine. However, NO ONE has the right to come here arrogantly pontificating that what he/she believes is the truth, and that anyone who believes otherwise can’t possibly be right. That’s spiritual pride, and one of the worst sins you can commit.
 
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The Trinity is the Father, Son, and the Holy Ghost. It is NOT the Father, Son, and the Catholic church, or whatever version you want to come up with.

If you want to believe the RCC has all authority in all matters, and you want to accept 100% its teachings then that’s fine. That’s your right, and I will stand with you on that.

However, it needs to be understood that not all Christians (Catholic or other denominations) agree with you. Different people believe different things, or interpret scripture differently, and there’s not one individual nor organization that has it 100% correct. I’ve personally run into some Christians, with whom I don’t agree, who are very devout, very conservative, and very much against the RCC. They’ll cite Bible passages to show that what the RCC practices is unbiblical, and call it things that I won’t repeat here. However, they’re just a sure as you that what they believe is 100% truth, and anyone who believes something else is “lost” or “wrong.” That’s wrong, no matter who does it.

Bottom line is that we are all at different points in our walk of faith with Jesus. The Holy Spirit is within and guiding every Christian, not just the RCC. Everyone is different, so obviously there are different points of view on a great variety of subjects. With over 1 billion Catholics in the world, it would be foolish to think every single one can become like-minded and agree on everything just because the RCC teaches or says something is true.

We all struggle with some part of our faith. We’re constantly asking ourselves questions about truth, what are the correct interpretations of scripture, why we sometimes feel our conscious is telling us one thing while some scripture or the RCC may say the opposite, etc. That’s why we have a Liberal Catholics fórum here, so we can discuss and try to sort out these things in peace and in respect to one another. It is NOT intended for holier-than-though types to arrogantly come here and start shoving Catholic dogma down our throats just because the opinions expressed here sometimes differ from the official RCC position. It’s not only very ill mannered, but aginst the forum rules, and if we wanted that kind of treatment then we can just go to CAF or some other forum where that kind of thing is freely dispensed.

If someone wants to come here and point out an official RCC position because an error in stating it was made, then fine. If people want to respectfully debate about whether a person can/should be Catholic if he/she disagrees with the RCC on some issues, then fine. However, NO ONE has the right to come here arrogantly pontificating that what he/she believes is the truth, and that anyone who believes otherwise can’t possibly be right. That’s spiritual pride, and one of the worst sins you can commit.

Thank you for making my point ever-so-clear.
What you are advocating is moral relativism and that's been, my point all along.

First of all, you need to understand that there is only ONE truth (John 4:19) - not tens of thousands of versions of it.
The next thing you neet to realize is that Jesus only established ONE Church. At the Last Supper - He prayed fervently that this ONE Church remain ONE - as He and the Father are ONE (John 17:20-23).
The Church - the ONE Church is the fullness of Christ (Eph. 1:22-23).

Regardles of dissention and individual dissidents - they can be wrong in matters of faith and morals but the Church CANNOT be (John 16:12-15, 1 Tim. 3:15).

The next thing you need to understand is the nobody is "pontificating" about anything. I am merely a parrot for the Church, which is the Body of Christ. I don't off my opinions when it comes to the Truth because they don't mean a thing if they rebut the Truth - and neither do your opinions. People like you refuse to be obedient to the Church either because of ignorance of the Scriptures or some sort of spiritual pride and obstinacy. I suggest you swallow that pride and listen to the Church which is Christ's FULL aAuthority on earth.

If you personally reject the Authority of the Church - that is your perogative, just as it is your perogative to anything else the Church has to say about anything including homosexual union. As I have already pointed out that the Scriptures - the written Word of God Almighty states that homosexual behavior is an abomination in the eyes of God. When pseudo-"Catholics" reject the Word of God on the matter, there are nothing more than Protestants because they have rejected Christ Himself (Luke 10:16).

Finally - you state that your Protestant friends make claims about the Catholic Church involving itself in "un-Biblical" practices which is about the most preposterous part of your post. EVERY single Church ecclesial community in the 21st century doies things that were not and could not be done in the early Church. However - the Catholic Church does not practice ANYTHING that is ANTI-Biblical, whereas every other Protestant community DOES.
Rejecting the Real Presence of Christ in the Holy Eucharist is first and foremost on the list.

Some other unbiblical Protestant practices and doctrines include the pre-trib Rapture, Invisible Church, Accepting Christ as Lord and Savior, Limited Atonement, Altar Call, Once saved-Aways saved, Dedications and Rededication, Re-Baptism, etc.

I have YET to debate any Protestant who can point out one single "anti-Biblibal" practice of the Catholic Church and I would issue the same challenge to you . . .
 
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