citizenthom
I'm not sayin'. I'm just sayin'.
Just because someone can never meet an ideal does not mean s/he should not strive for it. That's the entire point of the Christian walk.
No man will ever truly meet the Biblical standard for a husband (loving his wife "as Christ loves the church"), but young women should be taught to look for a man who understands that role and at least puts his best efforts into it, striving to improve himself daily.
To the OP: two things to consider. First, there is no substitute for your good example. As a woman's father goes, so goes her choice in men. You ARE her book on male behavior. The way you treat your wife is the way your daughter will think is "normal" for men to treat her. So start there: examine your own marriage, work on any problem areas with your own behavior, do the right things for and with your wife in full sight of your daughter.
Second, way before a young person can understand what a Biblical spouse looks like, she needs to understand what a Biblical WIFE looks like. Again, the first example will be your own wife and how she reacts to you. Also, young women get a LOT of bad examples from media and television now; when you see one together, explain to her what a good man finds disdainful about them (especially lack of respect and immodesty).
No man will ever truly meet the Biblical standard for a husband (loving his wife "as Christ loves the church"), but young women should be taught to look for a man who understands that role and at least puts his best efforts into it, striving to improve himself daily.
To the OP: two things to consider. First, there is no substitute for your good example. As a woman's father goes, so goes her choice in men. You ARE her book on male behavior. The way you treat your wife is the way your daughter will think is "normal" for men to treat her. So start there: examine your own marriage, work on any problem areas with your own behavior, do the right things for and with your wife in full sight of your daughter.
Second, way before a young person can understand what a Biblical spouse looks like, she needs to understand what a Biblical WIFE looks like. Again, the first example will be your own wife and how she reacts to you. Also, young women get a LOT of bad examples from media and television now; when you see one together, explain to her what a good man finds disdainful about them (especially lack of respect and immodesty).
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