That is what it sounds like to me when I hear an atheist argue about heaven and hell.
Is that a bad thing?
It just is.
I don't understand why an atheist would be praying to God.
However, 1 John 4:7-8 says that ANYONE who loves is born of God and knows God, so, one could argue that that would include atheists.
If one does not love, they do not know God, and that includes the "saved."
But what I think the atheist is doing is acting for someone to explain how heaven and hell make sense, how someone would be sent to hell for being born into the wrong religion, or being tortured in hell for an eternity for 80 years on earth.
And what I often hear from other believers is that they believe but never really think about some of these issues, like, why would a God torture people for not loving him?
So, I fault the believers.
Basically, God loves us, without condition. (This is often not what is taught. We are taught that we are good and God loves us.) We are good and God loves us. We sin, and God loves us. We don't accept his love and he loves us.
It is God's will that we will love God back, allowing his love to flow through us and out toward our neighbors.
But Christians aren't known for their love. Christ said that all men would know that we are Christ's disciples, but the love we show one another.