Here is a proposal for helping move things in a positive direction in these kinds of discussions--to promote peaceful co-existence and harmony. This is a grass-roots idea. I'm a little fish, just a trainee, and only speaking for myself here:
I submit we can promote a positive and harmonious spirit here by doing a couple of things. First of all, making an effort ourselves to put it into practice; but secondly, and I don't think it will work without this second part, if we see the other kind of stuff going on, the undermining, the attempt at subversion, the finger-pointing, the proselytizing at others' expense, then call them on it--in a courteous way! Speak up, take responsiiblity for helping make this a safe neighborhood.
Hentenza, I hope I'm not out of line in suggesting this. It is just an idea, and I'm still new on the block.
Dave