Brother, I am not trying to let you have it, and I certainly do not approach the matter as a "Greek". I know you hate nationalism in Orthodoxy, and believe me, I am right there beside you on that count.
My main concern about your post is that you keep bringing politics into a matter I am trying to keep out. Furthemore, I am afraid a lot in the EP vs Moscow struggle does stem from nationalism and we should be extra careful not to fall in that trap.
Finally, I urge you again to reconsider your words concerning the current Patriarch. I have met him, and my spiritual father knows him extremely well, and you are way off the mark in your assessment. As for forming relations with heretics, it would have been wonderful if the problems the Patriarchate is facing became exposed through Orthodox intervention, but sadly this is not the case. Greece and Russia have turned their back on the Patriarchate, Greece out of growing secularization and the efforts of the previous archbishop and Russia because it is favouring the case of Russian primacy.
In the meantime, the birthplace of Orthodox civilization is DYING. That is a shame on ALL our heads. Especially considering by council the First in honour is still there.