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I was on it for a bit, but I got so tired of the process so quickly I didn't want to pursue, but just sitting there waiting for a guy to show interest doesn't work at all. 
And for the money, I wouldn't do it again.
My uncle's ex found her second husband on there though! they're blissfully married. I know Tenorvoice on here met his lady there, and last I heard they're planning on getting married. So there are lots of successes there too. It just doesn't work for everyone. Me included, I suppose.
It felt contrived and I didn't have the chance to ask the questions I wanted to earlier on in the process. I had to wait until the end to ask some questions or follow-ups I found important. Structure can work for you, but also against you.
Anyway, I wasn't ever short of matches, even if some of them were kinda far away. I even dated one of the guys I met through there for a whole month before it went belly-up no fault of eHarmony though.
anyway, I say find a way to do a trial run and see if you like it! There are lots of Christians on there, more than any other populated dating site I've ever seen anyway.
And for the money, I wouldn't do it again. My uncle's ex found her second husband on there though! they're blissfully married. I know Tenorvoice on here met his lady there, and last I heard they're planning on getting married. So there are lots of successes there too. It just doesn't work for everyone. Me included, I suppose.
It felt contrived and I didn't have the chance to ask the questions I wanted to earlier on in the process. I had to wait until the end to ask some questions or follow-ups I found important. Structure can work for you, but also against you.
Anyway, I wasn't ever short of matches, even if some of them were kinda far away. I even dated one of the guys I met through there for a whole month before it went belly-up
no fault of eHarmony though.anyway, I say find a way to do a trial run and see if you like it! There are lots of Christians on there, more than any other populated dating site I've ever seen anyway.
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ya it looks good but its a lot of money so I'm kinda torn, if its worth it or not
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(I should really save my old posts on the subject.)
Here's a synopsis of my eHarmony experience: personality profile wasn't accurate, matches didn't match, one was a man.
Here's a synopsis of my eHarmony experience: personality profile wasn't accurate, matches didn't match, one was a man.
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This one girl at my church tried it and she met this guy and dated him for a while. She brought him to meet our friends for dinner and he ended up hitting on another one of our friends right there in front of her . Then he called the next day and broke up with her and said he couldn't stop thinking about the friend. That's the only person i know in real life that has used e-harmony.
I've toyed with the idea, b/c i have no possiblities in real life. But , i feel weird about it.
I've toyed with the idea, b/c i have no possiblities in real life. But , i feel weird about it.
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I did a trial a while back, then quit. Then recently I filled out their profile thing again and it said I was unsuitable
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my good friend met his current girlfriend on match.com...I did a trial a while back, then quit. Then recently I filled out their profile thing again and it said I was unsuitable
I know it's not the same, but I'm sure it's similar right?
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lol how come?I did a trial a while back, then quit. Then recently I filled out their profile thing again and it said I was unsuitable
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