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Do YOU have a crush on anyone?

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The guy I was interested in my last post in this thread (I think I've posted this before)... anyway, he's probably moving across the country soon... so again, there is no chance for us even if he felt the same for me.

goodness... i'm so afraid. why? i don't know. afraid of losing all chances perhaps. or afraid of the moment when he tells me he's met 'the one' and I know it isn't me. ah well... this happens.

:hug: :hug: :hug:

Aww God loves you and so do I sweetie. I'll pray for you.
 
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Yeah, but you can't expect someone's lifestyle choices to be the same as they were at 12. Isn't that a bit unrealistic?

Anyway, I love that this thread is back up here. I think its a lot of fun! :thumbsup:
I know. But what bothers me so much is that I cannot shake the idea she could have been that way at twelve, and I would have been so blind so as to ignore the warning signs.
 
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I know. But what bothers me so much is that I cannot shake the idea she could have been that way at twelve, and I would have been so blind so as to ignore the warning signs.

Don't worry about it so much. Seriously, its a childhood crush, nothing to lose sleep over. :thumbsup:
 
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Let me just say I have had so many other issues that dturned me off relationships that I feel that for the biggest crush I have ever had to have turned out like she did may represent the final "nail in the coffin."
 
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Wow, I posted this thread almost a year ago and I haven't even put in my two cents!

Um, do I have a crush? Right now. No. Recently broke up with my boyfriend. I'm not sure that I'm ready for a crush yet...

I used to have a crush on Brent. Then we just stopped talking.
 
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hmm, this threads back and it's been almost 4 months since I posted about my crush. I think I'm pretty much over him, I wish him and his new fiancé the best, there wedding is in just a little over a month so I can't have feelings anymore.

Now back to the question, do I have a crush?
I don't have any crushes right now, there are a few guys that I've met recently, through church softball, combined sunday school classes and just new people coming to the church that are closer to my age that I'd like to get to know better. They seem like really great guys, so I wouldn't complain if anything developed ;) I love the summer, I don't have a college class so I can interact more with the rest of the 20's class. I feel like I'm abandoning the college group and my spot on the leadership team if I do it during the school year. The 20's class just has people more my age, or they're more mature than the group I usually do things with, I feel like the mom of the group half the time :doh: .
 
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hmm, this threads back and it's been almost 4 months since I posted about my crush. I think I'm pretty much over him, I wish him and his new fiancé the best, there wedding is in just a little over a month so I can't have feelings anymore.

Yeah thats rough, one time I had a crush on this girl and she helped get me a job someplace when we where teenagers. So I go into work the first day and I'm waiting in the break room for the time when I can punch in. She's comming in at the same time, so we are talking and this other guy that I don't even know comes in and starts making out with her.

uggg shove a spear through me next time.
 
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Sadly, I think I do. I haven't had on in a long time and I try to leave crushes for high schoolers but man, I can't help it this time. He's the worship leader for a church I'm going to. He has a girlfriend (*sigh*) so I'm just going to let it die.

I wish them the best.
 
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Sadly, I think I do. I haven't had on in a long time and I try to leave crushes for high schoolers but man, I can't help it this time. He's the worship leader for a church I'm going to. He has a girlfriend (*sigh*) so I'm just going to let it die.

I wish them the best.

As CoG and I both pointed out a crush is just an intial attraction to someone's personality.

You can't really find love without it having been a crush at one time if you ask me. So no Crushes arn't just for high schoolers, they are for all single people.
 
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