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Och! Faith and Begorra! Are ye still feeling Irish?
Well I've promised to not change my outfit unless someone blesses me with new items. My current problem is someone blessed me with 5k blessings to buy a new outfit. So do I bless someone else and just change my clothes or do I actually buy new ones....
 
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What powers does a super snuggle sword have?
It slices through hate, loneliness, and feelings of worthlessness to snuggle the heart and make people feel loved, worthy, listened to, and cared about.
 
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Ah, tis a noble and true sword indeed.

The snuggle sword is mightier than the . . . than the . . erm, well, gotta think about that one a bit.

What makes you feel worthy?
honestly? i don't know. i'm not feeling very worthy right now. but when i help others, not just tell them they're loved but actually love them, i feel pretty content in there being hope to feeling worthy.
 
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honestly? i don't know. i'm not feeling very worthy right now. but when i help others, not just tell them they're loved but actually love them, i feel pretty content in there being hope to feeling worthy.

(((great big chaos snuggles)))

thank you for being who you are

*psst, who's that guy with the squid on his head?*
 
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(((great big chaos snuggles)))

thank you for being who you are

*psst, who's that guy with the squid on his head?*

i don't think i'd be the one to thank as i think i have very little choice in who i am. you'd have to thank everything i've ever experienced, everyone i've ever come into contact with, and so forth and so on.

however, that squid head guy is either davy jones or a fisherman who thinks smelling fishy will help with the catch.
 
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i don't think i'd be the one to thank as i think i have very little choice in who i am. you'd have to thank everything i've ever experienced, everyone i've ever come into contact with, and so forth and so on.

but you are greater than the sum of your parts, as I think you have clearly demonstrated time and again.

and there the credit belongs to you and you alone.

what makes you feel listened to?
 
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but you are greater than the sum of your parts, as I think you have clearly demonstrated time and again.

and there the credit belongs to you and you alone.

what makes you feel listened to?

perhaps greater than the sum of the parts, but each of the parts was integral to forming who i am. while some of it was great and other parts horrible, i think each element helped me to become who i am at this very minute. perhaps i interpreted how to view each thing, but i doubt i would be me without the parts having been there to begin with.

if credit is due to only one thing, i'd say it would be god. i certainly don't feel comfy taking credit for anything.

as for what makes me feel listened to, its what happens after. that someone can tell if i am upset or happy without me necessarily having to spell it out beforehand. that someone can figure the right questions to ask. that they don't come off as entirely neutral to what i've said, they don't try to change the subject when it gets uncomfy but instead insists that i stay there and hold my hand through it.

when someone knows if i need a hug or a laugh, to get away or see a movie, to talk or be left alone... that's when i feel listened to.

when i don't have to say "help" but they offer it first.

i dont think words need to be exchanged to feel listened to. i just think words are the easiest way for it to happen.
 
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Mo love, Miss Toe. :)
You too RockinHorse, you too.

What movie would you like to see next? Can be new or older.
Hmm, I'm not entirely sure. The next movie I watch is going to be on a DVD tonight as it is movie night with my friends. I get to pick and usually I pick moments before I walk out when it is my turn haha. Any suggestions?
 
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You too RockinHorse, you too.

Hmm, I'm not entirely sure. The next movie I watch is going to be on a DVD tonight as it is movie night with my friends. I get to pick and usually I pick moments before I walk out when it is my turn haha. Any suggestions?
Memoirs of a Geisha.
 
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No, I've watched it rather recently. I think I'll go with something random. That or something very very happy.
It's pretty good, huh?
:thumbsup:

Saw Anger Management the other day. Sound good? It has a nice happy ending!
 
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It's pretty good, huh?
:thumbsup:

Saw Anger Management the other day. Sound good? It has a nice happy ending!
I haven't seen that one yet. It is on my netflix list though.
 
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Have you seen the Japanese version of Godzilla 1954? It's awesome! I can't say it really has a happy ending, but you'll really be surprised, especially if you've seen the American version.
I've seen the original Godzilla.
 
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