Matthew 6:14-15 Your heavenly Father will forgive you if you forgive those who sin against you; but if you refuse to forgive them, he will not forgive you.
Colossians 3:13 Be gentle and ready to forgive; never hold grudges. Remember, the Lord forgave you, so you must forgive others.
Forgiveness is an action that most of us struggle with. Over the next several weeks, I want to look at four facets of forgiveness, which God has been trying to make me understand over the years. They are forgiving others, forgiving us, asking God for forgiveness and accepting Gods forgiveness.
Eight years ago a business partner committed unimaginable wrongs against me. They were not only immoral but also illegal. These transgressions were crippling. I will never forget a year or so after this event when this person came to me asking for forgiveness. I am not proud of the fact that I simply said, Sorry, I cant forgive you. I am not over this yet. This past Monday morning, this person showed up at my office to ask again for forgiveness. I was surprised at how God has softened my heart over the years, and I quickly assured him that all was forgiven. I then said, just forget about it.
By Tuesday morning, my carnal self was asking, Have I really forgiven him? "Do I really want to forgive him?" Jesus words to Peter in the passage below echoed over and over again in my head. I think I understand this passage now. Forgiveness is an action that never ends. We keep forgiving seventy times seven.
Matthew 18:21-22 Then Peter came to him and asked, Sir, how often should I forgive a brother who sins against me? Seven times? No! Jesus replied, seventy times seven!"
When we truly forgive someone who has wronged us, it is one of the most freeing feelings that we can experience. Gone are our mental prisons created by harboring hard feeling