As I understand it, those scriptures were addressing women at that time in that church b/c there was an issue w/the behavior of the women.
Let us do the whole verse:
1 Corinthians 14:35 MKJV
(35) And if they desire to learn anything, let them ask their husbands at home; for it is a shame for a woman to speak in a church.
Questions for you.
If the man and woman are unequally yoked, and the wife becomes a believer after their marriage..... whom does she ask questions to ? Lo, not her husband for he is not saved, yet... whom will help her w/her walk in Christ ? If she can't ask questions at the church, she surely can't ask her husband who is a nonbeliever
I mean, we have to look at scripture from all sides.
1 Corinthians 14:34 MKJV
(34) Let your women be silent in the churches; for it is not permitted to them to speak, but to be in subjection, as the Law also says.
Your women... He didn't say THE women. He said YOUR, therefore, in my opinion, your means wives. If he said THE, then that changes the whole verse. Using the word 'your' makes the women a possession, therefore meaning they belong to someone... the husbands.
Now there is a breakdown on whether single women or married women can preach. As with most scripture, this is a debate.
But... what about Phoebe ?
Romans 16:1-2 MKJV
(1) I commend to you Phoebe our sister, who is a servant of the church in Cenchrea,
(2) that you receive her in the Lord, as becomes saints, and that you may assist her in whatever business she has need of you. For she has been a helper of many, and of myself also.
Phoebe... a female obviously

In my opinion, it looks as though she is a leader.. she's even helped Paul. Some would argue she was a co-minister of the gospel w/Paul... After all Priscilla and Aquila were co-laborers and were husband and wife.
You see, it is all very debatable, this I understand.
I do find it interesting enough, however, that the main ones who have problems w/female pastors / preachers are.... men.
I have been called into the ministry of preaching... If need be, I sure would preach 1 Cor 14:35 in a heartbeat.
1 Corinthians 14:33-35 CEV
(33) God wants everything to be done peacefully and in order. When God's people meet in church,
(34) the women must not be allowed to speak. They must keep quiet and listen, as the Law of Moses teaches.
(35) If there is something they want to know, they can ask their husbands when they get home. It is disgraceful for women to speak in church.
I could pull so much from that if need be.
Also, the translations we see now... I mean, to be honest, KJV isn't the original. Paul, James, and so on didn't speak in thees and thous. They spoke in Hebrew, Aramaic, and so on. If we want to REALLY learn what the deal is, we will learn those languages and then read the original sciptures as the translation from original language has changed the scipture a bit.
It is like saying...
El cielo grande. It translates to english as "The Sky Big".. it doesn't translate word for word. The setup is different, as it was with the languages used at those times in comparison with the English (or Old English) language.