Ive been struggling with the "WHY ME" questions . Why am I fat , Why did i wreck my car , Why did all my money diplete...I mean the questions go on and on .. I then think could I have done things differently and maybe have changed the events? And yes i most definatly could of but then I wouldent be who i am today without those questions. I quess what i am saying is cherish those mistakes in life or the " Why Me " moments because they yeild to learning and sometimes blessings . But above all let God know your feelings , he doesnt care if we bring them to him . But do trust in him to carry you out of your troubles . Rely in him and he will save you .