My favorite secular novel is "War and Peace". There is one particular passage that I absolutely love because it wonderfully describes how, as believers, are lives are to be lived.
We were never meant to live partaking of the knowledge of good and evil, but.with the eyes of our hearts on the Lord where the vision of Him transports us to another, higher realm ... But instead of going on about it, I'll give the floor to Tolstoy. Just be sure to substitute the Lord for Natasha in the excerpt below and you will see it is a wonderful expression of what that process is like. Here we go...