when I was 16 I asked the lord to send me a good woman to love and be my wife. a few weeks later he sent me a good woman. ive been living with her for 20 years and have 3 children. We never got married. I want to be married but I don't want to burden them because I have a bad financial situation and horrible credit. I Know God sent her to me without a doubt and I know he bleesed us. But people are pushing us to do things right and get married. They don't know of our financial difficulty if we get legally married. I would love to have the marriage ceremony and all the formalitys of a marriage without legally being married.I would like to know if theres a church that would marry us like a secret wedding. Afterall Jesus knows we serve him and have accepted him as our lord and savior and that one day we will be in heaven with him. We are walking the Christian life and I would like to know what we can do.Thanks