Marriage

Me and my husband has been married for 6 yrs... Through this time we've had some ups & downs, which we still managed to be as 1... We both got saved almost 5/6 months ago.. I know one can't change over night but its almost as if he never got saved...so I just contd to pray for him & let God deal with him.. We started going to church together @ first, me, him & our two kids.. Now it's almost like he either too tired to go or either stayed out too late the night before.. & I used to find myself going off or upset b/c he don't want to go to church.. We both joined the church but me trying to be submissive, after going for a while he decides to join so I agreed not thing that he would stop going..b/c before then he made it a priority to attend every Sunday.. I personally need advice b/c it bothers me by him staying out all time of the night drinking and coming home drunk on the weekend period & not wanting to attend church with his family on Sunday... I'm just tired of basically not being the head & being the tail of his life.. Trying to give him the opportunity to lead by example but the things he's doing is not right.. Help please b/c it really does affect me & my journey to Christianity..