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Dont Think Im Going To Date Anymore.

I haven't even started and I'm already recoiling but that's because I know what I need to work on. After talking to some guys , they value a girl that is intelligence, so I have to brush up on that, and someone that's comfortable in their own skin...

That for me is going to be harder because I've never really felt confident in myself... Oh and I have to learn how to flirt,,,

I just feel so behind , its beat to leave well enough alone and just settle for having friends.

There's no pressure for sex...nor do you have to meet standards, friends live you as you are ( because they don't have to deal with tour flaws in a relationship lol)

So I think I'm going to work on me. Its so funny how my dilemma has always been not being ready, I met amazing guys often with things going for themselves but its me who comes up short,.. Where as my friend has met all the wrong dudes possible... She deserves better,

Wish I could give her my luck.