When you take someone else's offence, you are not helping them...you are hurting yourself. You just stopped the Word, the Power, & the Kingdom of God from operating in your life. If you were not there, you don't know what happened...you only heard one version of the story. If you were there, you are supposed to be a peace maker, not an offence taker. "You know what is your business, & when someone else's business is "NONE of your business"!
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MoCGqSpGygg
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MoCGqSpGygg