Mat 7:12 Therefore all things whatsoever ye would that men should do to you, do ye even so to them: for this is the law and the prophets.
Jesus said he came to fulfill the law and the prophets. They testified of him and that, to "do unto others as you'd have them do unto you is the law and the prophets.
to fulfill them. yes. to die to save us. yes.
Jesus did not send out His disciples to preach the law and the prophets , but the good news.
God is also holiness and justice.
Ephesians 1:4
For he chose us in him before the creation of the world to
be holy and blameless in his sight...
Hebrews 12:14
Make every effort to live in peace with all men and to
be holy; without holiness no one will see the Lord.
1 Peter 1:15
But just as he who called you is holy, so
be holy in all you do;
1 Peter 1:16
for it is written: "
Be holy, because I am holy."
2 Corinthians 7:1
Since we have these promises, dear friends, let us purify ourselves from everything that contaminates body and spirit, perfecting holiness out of reverence for God.
Matthew 12:18
"Here is my servant whom I have chosen, the one I love, in whom I delight; I will put my Spirit on him, and he will proclaim justice to the nations.
Love your neighbor as you love yourself. All men are our neighbors. Our ego dies when we walk in Love and, the Spirit of God flows from our inner-most being.
no one has suggested not loving our neighbors or not loving period.
by the way, the only way to remain in His love is not through disobedience, but obedience.
John 15:10
If you obey my commands, you will remain in my love, just as I have obeyed my Father's commands and remain in his love.