I think that all depends where the woman is at in her life. If she is single and has no children then she is "free" to choose what ever role she wants ie; pastor, church leader, ect. But if she is married then she is to "serve" her husband how he sees fit. Now I know that sounds horrable but its really not. God teaches us that the husband is the head of the house and a wife is the heart, you can't have one without the other. But I think first and for most a womans place is where ever God puts her.