So i've been a christian for about 3 months and my family doesnt really go to church very much, so i try to witness to them. My sister says she is an agnostic athiest, my mom is methodist but she said she wasnt saved, and my dad is a christian but only goes to church on holidays. Anyway i was talking to my sister and i usually try to witness to her and it is really hard. She says God is a jerk and a mass murderer (where he would wipe out whole cities that wouldn't listen to him) and i try to explain to her that those people had a choice whether to follow God or not and they choose not to knowing the consquences but not wanting to believe them. She also says she wold rather burn in hell than be a christian, the more i try to talk to her about the bible the more she hates me and God, and she said after she quit being a christian she felt like there was a huge burden lifted off of her she felt like there was no one watching her all the time to make good choices. THEN she asked me to respect her belief that there was no god and asked me to CHOOSE her or god! Then she said well its not really a choice because God isnt real. She said she doesnt want religion to come between us but if she has to she wont talk to me after she moves away for college in a year. I said i can't do that! That would be defying God if i refused to talk about him to you and i want to talk about him to you because i love you! Then she walked away crying saying she was disappointed in me. I dont know what to do! I want to really talk to someone about it but i think my mom and dad would just say fix it. I want to talk about it to my youth pastor but i dont really know when to talk to him about it. I think itd be better to talk in person rather than a text message. But its not really a quick talk a can ask before a sermon so should i ask him if i could set up a time to talk to him? And he is like one of the leaders at my church who i feel like i can talk to and has the knowledge i need rather than my small group leaders who i don't really know that well yet. What do you guys think about my situation with my sis and maybe how i should talk to my youth pastor about it? BTW i dont attack her with what I believe if she asks me what i learned in church i will simply tell i i just dont run up to her and start talking about God. Thanks everyone!!!!!