Why does the bible say this? In my experience non-Christians treated me better even in the friendship area.
I understand that the non-christian mate can sway you away from God like what happened to Solomon but I saw that christian marriages have just about the highest divorce rates out there....
I can see what God is saying but now and days with more education to the masses, people know how to treat one another.
I dated to women who both went to church back in the day and it was disappointing. I have friends and relatives that went to church and their relationships with their mates faltered also but the couples who did not go to church, they are still going strong. I think this issue is iffy with me this day and age.
So if you had to chose between a caring giving non-christian who is selfless or a selfish believer who once in a while cares for you, which would you pick?
I've always gotten along better with non-Christians; they are sometimes much more accepting and even kind.
However, I could never date or marry someone that is a non-Christian b/c to me marriage is about sharing all of myself and moving forward in life together with my spouse. My faith is important to me and I want it to be important to "us". Not that I had a lot of guys (Christian or not) trying to date me over the years but in a general friendship way I got along better with them.
I understand that the non-christian mate can sway you away from God like what happened to Solomon but I saw that christian marriages have just about the highest divorce rates out there....
I can see what God is saying but now and days with more education to the masses, people know how to treat one another. I dated to women who both went to church back in the day and it was disappointing. I have friends and relatives that went to church and their relationships with their mates faltered also but the couples who did not go to church, they are still going strong. I think this issue is iffy with me this day and age.
So if you had to chose between a caring giving non-christian who is selfless or a selfish believer who once in a while cares for you, which would you pick?
Do as you wish. It's a recommendation. Paul feels that Christians are better suited to marry fellow Christians, but if you feel otherwise, then go ahead. The notion that you have to do something one way just because it's in the Bible is absurd....Why does the bible say this? In my experience non-Christians treated me better even in the friendship area.
I'm probably going to open up a big can of worms, but I don't care. I don't think any Non-Christian will go running away from this anyway. I, too, have experienced more acceptance with Non-Christians. Non-Christians are less-likely to judge, more likely to mind their own business and not tear me down when I've made a mistake. You want to know why I truly believe the ones that I have encountered are like this though? I don't really believe that Non-Christians are any better than Christians; likewise, I don't believe for one moment Christians are better than Non-Christians. It isn't because they really do understand the concept of forgiveness and letting go moreso than a Christian. I think that Non-Christians I have encountered are less-likely to judge me because they, too, do not want to be judged. Nobody likes to be told that what they're doing, how they're conducting their life is wrong, questionable... whatever.
If you guys say that it is all about values and such then I may as well prepare myself for a life or talking to wall and getting a pet....
I think that I am too loyal of a person now and days and that is probably why I failed in the past.