I really don't get it
Please, anyone got any theories other than the 'opposites attract' one?
Please, anyone got any theories other than the 'opposites attract' one?
I really don't get it
Please, anyone got any theories other than the 'opposites attract' one?
because they are physically attracted to them and it probably helps their ego that their a failure of being so shy they get someone to "compliment" them by being the opposite.
that's my theory.
This one makes more sense than the first reply.because they are physically attracted to them and it probably helps their ego that their a failure of being so shy they get someone to "compliment" them by being the opposite.
that's my theory.
What do you mean by that?
What would make them think so?It's the only girls who they figure out is interested in them?
JM
Hmmm...I don't get the logic behind your first comment.I think it's kind of immature for guys to do that. It's like the easy way out or something. I like those types of women, but I also know that there is a big possibility of conflict.
I've realized lately the type of lady I prefer. One who's a little compassionate, maybe a little smarter than I am, is able to teach me things about dealing with life. She has also matured. She has a strong kindness to her, but is not a pushover.
I know someone like this, unfortunately she is married. But she verges on flirting with me, or at least I know she likes me, but it's not serious. It's more like a common understanding on how we approach the world. But she is strong spiritually and knows that I am a believer also. I know that she helps in her church a lot. But I'm glad I've discovered her so that I would know what type of person I like.
Hmmm...I don't get the logic behind your first comment.
Immature?
A 'way out'?
Care to elaborate? Maybe my brain frequency is on the decline as it's really late at night, but I would appreciate it if you could also use some analogies for me. Thank you
This makes even less sense than before.They can't figure out that the shy girl would be interested in them because they are too shy to notice her (Since she is shy).
On the other hand, the loud/dominant woman is out there, making herself noticed.
JM
But then you seem to be missing the 'dominant' aspect of the kind of woman I am describing.Sorry, I was referring to my own experiences. If it's easier for a shy guy to attract a woman who is more forward, then that's like taking the easy way out. He doesn't have to worry about trying to talk to a shy woman, who is naturally more of a challenge.
In any event, what makes you think the loud dominant woman is any different from the shy woman when it comes to responding to the shy guys advances?Too stupid, more like!